Open Dating

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Jan 21, 2008.

  1. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol its causal like , u change one each week =P, its not nice that u get a playboy or playgirl image tho =P lol its prob one of the topics when ur family discusses at the dinner table haha,
     
  2. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    just depends how u look at it

    if u go on a so called "first date" with someone
    and then u think it doesn't work out and u don't go with them again
    did that consitute as a relationship? i wouldn't think so

    so in terms of those "datings" where u go to get to know more of them
    its fine (so i think)

    until u get all confused about which one u want... lol
    too many choices is a bad thing... eheheh
     
  3. depends on how u define date... to me a date is 1 boy 1 girl doing something... it could b lunch, dinner, movies... a lot of ppl r doing it without realising... i don't think that would give anyone a player image... -lol
     
  4. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    so if 1 boy and 1 girl are working in the office 2gether
    is that a date too :p
     
  5. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol Office Date? it could happen lol , when everyone is out having lunch and they're all alone ^^
     
  6. yeah... in a way... coz there's a chemistry there when a guy's alone with a girl n most of the time u dun even realise... i don't think i wanna work in an office of just 2 ppl anyway...

    i'm just really strict with myself when it comes to this... so my man can tust me -lol
     
  7. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    but what if the other colleagues all went out for meeting or presentation or seomthing
    then just u 2 left??

    or how about
    u gotta go out to meet client for some work
    and hteres only u and them?? how does that work??


    or... wen ur doing ur facials, and theres only u and him in that room??

    or wen u go cut ur hair, and the hair stylist is the only one in the place??
    :p
    lol
     
  8. well... i don't work in an office do i??

    i with my job i dun need to go out need to go out to meet my clients do i??

    if i was doing a facial for him then he wouldn't b able to talk to me...

    n i wouldn't go into a hair salon with no clients...

    n if i had to b alone with a guy i'll grab the blade from my hand bag n cut my wrist... happy now?? <_<
     
  9. skid

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    geez you guys are getting too technical with your definitions haha
    for me dating is more of an on going thing, not necesarily more than friends or bf/gf, but still close enough to call it "seeing each other" lol

    meh too many definitions = mixed feelings, wants and needs hahhah
     
  10. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    lol, if its just 1 guy and 1 girl then im on dates like almost every week haha.
    I say dating is more ya know, pre arranged to go somewhere together just the two of you. x
     
  11. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    what weird questions we popular asian ppl come up with xD
    that is quite random lor
    i reckon 1 guy to 1 girl is best lor
    if ur reasoning behind it is 'test for potential relationship' then i think it's bullshit lor
    just be friends first
    and choose later =.=
    you'll end up hurting everyone!
    that's wha ti do anyway....
    i would b hurt if i foudn out the person i was dating was datign with other guys
     
  12. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol so 尊 一 is the best
     
  13. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    of course~!
     
  14. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    of course!
     
  15. weilinny

    weilinny Well-Known Member

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    No to both question. But even if I were to even consider it, they would know that I wasn't exclusive. It's not fair to the other person if they think they are the only one if you are dating other people too.
     
  16. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    aiii dawn... u know i wasn't serious about all those stuff neway :p
    do u always keep a blade in ur handbag??
     
  17. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    it prob has 2 uses, one she mentioned and the other is to attack perverts =P
     
  18. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    as long as you haven't commited to anyone than i think it's fine
    but make sure your open and honest about it, or you can get into major trouble

    You make too many good points

    you think it's a weird question?
     
  19. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    i think it's a weird question but not half as weird as the things that go on on my school forum xD
     
  20. kinni3

    kinni3 Well-Known Member

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    Although I agree with you smallrinilady; I don't think I can do it lol
    I'll feel too guilty and weird about it after =S