Question about gifts

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by lionheart, May 10, 2007.

  1. OFF COZ THAT'S NOT WOT SHE MEAN?!?!?!?!?!?

    i hate it when guys ask me wot gift i want... it's not the gift that counts... it's the thought that counts...

    if she tells u something expensive u might think she's a gold digger... if she says something cheap she can just go down to the shops to get it herself...
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ Thoughts count first but the choice of gifts is important too.
     
  3. misenlai

    misenlai Well-Known Member

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    loll u have to buy them gifts even if they say they don't need it...

    If not, they will be mad..
     
  4. depends on wot occasion... but yeah... on important dates u can't just pick flowers from ur neighbour's garden i suppose
     
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ But on this occasion, i dont think a guy would need to ask the gf what to give her since he should know what she likes best bc they are in a relationship.
     
  6. lionheart

    lionheart Well-Known Member

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    my gf said it doesnt matter the gifts, all it matters is who gave her the gift. honestly when she asked me what kind of gifts i want, i really dont know what i want xD i just want her to be with me...=D
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    If you get to know her well; you'd probably have some ideas on what she might really like. It might be different from others' preferences. She might have a specific wish-list... So pay attention to her body language when you guys are window-shoppin together; and pay attention when she said "I wish i could get one of those ... blablabla"
    or you could probably ask her what's in her top 10 wishlist (dun necessarily haf to ask her what she wants u to get her... it's her personal wish list)
     
  8. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    My neighbor throw away some plastic roses from her bf/ I picked em up and gave it away :) ...JK

    Expensive taste I see!!!

    That y he is an "EX"? :)

    They don;t need it, but they want it :)

    It's the thought...that counts

    My colleague at work said if I ever need roses, she will cut me some from her garden :)

    I think the gift has to be selected carefully, she will know how much TIME you spend thinking about it.

    think you have to be more subtle when you try to get info from her..
     
  9. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    No.. -^_^
    but doing that doesn't guarantee you a permanent relationship with your gf.
     
  10. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    To all the men: all women like gifts; heck, all men like gifts too, who doesn't. So regardless of what women say, get her a gift.

    To all the women: "It's the thought that counts" and "As long as the gift is thoughtful, it doesn't matter what it is." Well, sorry to break it to you, but as far as guys are concerned, to us, we ARE being thoughtful by remembering the special occasion and remembering to get you something. If you happen to consider our gift thoughtful, then that's a bonus.... cuz most men suck at choosing thoughtful gifts...
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ Neat. Thats a very good factual statement.
     
  12. DragonBuster

    DragonBuster Well-Known Member

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    I made my love kawasaki rose........ took me very long to learn,....and I still take an hour to make it. Don't have nice paper to make it, but in the end it looks okay. She says she knows how hard it is to make it... she's doesn't express much about it.. :(
     
  13. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Maybe she was expecting something else? You got a pic?
     
  14. DragonBuster

    DragonBuster Well-Known Member

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    well, i told her I'm going to make something very hard to show my love, so she expects it. I don't have a pic of the rose
     
  15. ItsRobertttt

    ItsRobertttt Well-Known Member

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    maybee she was very touched that she couldnt express it? unnno -noclue
     
  16. w10_chi24

    w10_chi24 Well-Known Member

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    alot of girls does that !! and it give guys alot of headache!! but just get her something anyways, just to make her smile =p most people give jewelleries .. chocolate . teddy bear and flowers... .. if u want it to be a special gift... it all depends u and your wallet .. the you part is go investigate wat that girl really likes.. its all about think and feel... for example.. they think its cute or its lovely .. its a considerable choice of buying !! if they see something .. and puts on an expression that u prolly never seen before.. thats the gift!! u hit the jackpot..... then the wallet part is how much u got to spend ! simple =p sounds kinda tough since women can be tricky to grasp!! doing this is harder !! hahhha so u gotta be patients . unless u got a time limit or something ... anyways hope this helps .. good luck =p
     
  17. ItsRobertttt

    ItsRobertttt Well-Known Member

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    ^not true it doesnt always depend on your wallet it also depends on how well you know her and also depends on your "sing yee" *bad ping yum*?
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Like writing a good poem for the gal ;P
     
  19. ItsRobertttt

    ItsRobertttt Well-Known Member

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    ^exactlyy like whats the point of going out to some gift shop and buying some random things while you can probably give her something she can never forget
     
  20. brown_bear

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    which we know who's good at that -^_^