My situation is the reverse. I was the one who did the dumping. So this is my two cents worth.... forget the guy. Move on. I believe that the saying that a good horse never graze in the same field twice is a good motto to go by. He may regret it but that's not your problem. He should have treasured what you have together. I think it's foolish to get yourself burned twice by the same person... but things worth considering is that this breakup has been a while (by a while, I mean at least a year) then it a different case.
My situation is the reverse. I was the one who did the dumping. So this is my two cents worth.... forget the guy. Move on. I believe that the saying that a good horse never graze in the same field twice is a good motto to go by. He may regret it but that's not your problem. He should have treasured what you have together. I think it's foolish to get yourself burned twice by the same person... but things worth considering is that this breakup has been a while (by a while, I mean at least a year) then it a different case.
Well i've been dumped and begged for chances at least 2 times. I don't know what happened, but there were many problems. Overall love and relationships are so confusing and heartbreaking. I want to be alone for now, doing some soul searching. I dont think he regrets dumping me. Instead, I think hes happier now, now that hes a free person without me nagging and annoying him all the time. I guess everything happens for a reason. I don't think you should take him back though.
it's kinda interesting that everyone has such a negative view on this subject because when i was younger, i made this observation couples who have broken up several times, and managed to get back together over years they seems to have the best relationships because even through thick and thin (and they HAVE been through everything) their love seems to over power and show that they truely want to be together
^^ It all depends on how you broke up. If it was a mutual brake up and he found someone two weeks or a month later then that's not really his fault and it would be ok to get back together. If he broke up with you and the next day we was going out with another chick what makes you think that he will not do it again? Maybe he might be the type of person that cannot be without someone for too long but if he transitioned too quickly maybe he really did not have feelings for you. If you feel like it is the right decision you should get back together. You should go with your gut instinct but if you feel like you will have any regrets getting back together then its not worth it.
There's nothing absolute ... you can try to take him back and when it doesn't feel right, dump him before he does ... be prepare that he might be doing it again, so don't feel too sad if it's really happen ...
I have been dumped twice by the same girl . At first when she dumped me for an other guy I was really very disturbed because I loved her a lot.When she came back I accepted her whole heartedly.She dumped again .When I found that she has become habitual I spit on her.Now I am having a good girl for me.
if i was you i would move on.. because i think time heals everything. I hate totally understand what you are going through.. something similar happened to me.. but he didnt leave me for a cuter girl but a slutty girl. I think if he would do it to you once... he would do it again. He can regret it once and then say sorry and come back to ur life after you've been hurt by him? I dont think so. Once a liar or cheater always a liar or cheater. No and if's or but.. i think its hard to say no to someone you still care about but then think about the time he said no to you. there are plenty of trees in the forest is what i think =]
well said, but i dont believe in this stuff. Everything happens because some individuals did it to themselves. they have no one to blame but themselves. Don't blame god, dont blame faith, etc.
well who do you have more feelings for.. the ex-ex-friend or the ex-ex-boyfriend?? or the ex-ex-friends brothers sister...?
this has nothing to do with the topic, but pijuu im just wondering, are you mixed? if so which races?
whaaaat ? why a girl can ever forgive a man who dumped her ? a girl can esily find guys, there are plenty pervert out there. It's more complicated for the men. Anyways, if he dumped you, especially for another one , then you can't accept that, it's for your pride ! Beside, it's a long long time ex, so you currently have a man, haven't you ?
