relations between you and your ex

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 10, 2007.

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for the most part, which occurs in you life

  1. you and your ex dont speak (mutual)

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    45.0%
  2. you and your ex are friends (close or aquaintance)

    18 vote(s)
    45.0%
  3. you hate your exs (one sided)

    3 vote(s)
    7.5%
  4. your ex's hate you (one sided)

    1 vote(s)
    2.5%
  1. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    For me i wouldn't really trust anyone who cheats on me, if they are able to cheat on you and hurt you like that, then they won't be afraid to do other things to you. But i guess you can always forgive and forget, but putting that much trust after someone does something like that to you is a bit too much for me.
     
  2. ftann

    ftann Well-Known Member

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    I totally agree, even though my ex and I are cool with each other, but i know my bf doesn't like it when/if I talk to my ex.

    Same with one of my ex, whenever we talk just to catch up, there's always a weird vibe between us plus he likes to ask questions about my bf, like if we're still tgt, kinda weird.

    I guess I can say that i'm fine with one of my ex, but for the other one we're not. It's because it was a bad breakup and we were mad at each other at the time, so we didn't talk with each other for a long time. Even though I'm not mad at him anymore, but because we haven't talk to each other for a long time, i don't know how to start talking to him again. Plus he has a gf right now too, it just makes it even harder for us to talk again, don't want his gf to get the wrong idea.
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    wow...
    unlike u guys....if one of my bf's would cheat on me....
    i would surely NOT wanna talk to him anymore...
    id probably get my revenge and then.... ban him out of my life
     
  4. wah~~~ how do u plan to get ur revenge??
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hahahaha *touch wood* it never happened to me YET....
    but trust me... ill make sure he WILL regret it....
     
  6. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    hey guy,here have 2 differ condition
    if...
    1) u jus break with ur partner sure u cannot do as wat i said 4get n 4give.
    2) if u already break with ur partner and u get a new partner now i think most of u will become mature n b able to 4get neither 4give rite
     
  7. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    yaya..but try to do it at least 4get...-sorc
     
  8. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    i dont believe in revenage, at most just guilt
     
  9. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    eh... i dont speak to any of my ex es but that doesnt mean i hate them, its just that i think they hate me haha
     
  10. !!!TwiLite!!!

    !!!TwiLite!!! Well-Known Member

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    Me and my ex don't even talk...he hates me...i didn't know he was gonna turn out to be like that...*sigh*
     
  11. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    most of the time you learn something new about your ex after you break up

    oh sounds like an interesting thread
     
  12. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    some relationships just dont work... when u decide together to break up with eachother... there's a good opportunity to stay friends... coz u know everything/a lot of eachother... and know the other's thoughts... sooo... it's not weird I guess
     
  13. NOLEE

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    He wants to be friends, but I don't feel like I can do that. Maybe in a few years, maybe he won't care when the time comes that I'm confortable but that's the decision I made.
     
  14. mszcyndie

    mszcyndie Well-Known Member

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    i speak to some of my exes, as friends, but then also... sometimes there's like nothing to talk about. except how me and my present bf are doing. and how they're doing with their new partner