Second chances? Do You Give Them?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by kapo123, Dec 22, 2006.

  1. lcy1988

    lcy1988 Active Member

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    it depends on what ur partner did....and the most important thing is, the question do u want he/she back, if u want it so just go for a 2nd time, if not just let him/her go...though....love is complicated>.<
     
  2. puisunn

    puisunn Well-Known Member

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    Haha.. maybe u'r right :D
     
  3. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I am cold and unforgiving in this. If an issue made us split, we are never going to get back together, because I will not split with someone because of a random fit. So the case will be: the issue is a genuine thing (i.e.: cheat or something of that line, on his behalf or mine, start smoking, drugs etc), getting back is OUT OF THE QUESTION.
    If the issue is relatively minor, then we shouldn't have split in the first place. If we indeed HAD split, then our collective folly do not warrant 2nd chances.
    So one way or another, split = split = split, constant.
     
  4. krazyaznboi

    krazyaznboi Well-Known Member

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    never...cheaters will always be a cheater
     
  5. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    WORD.
     
  6. sweetpotato

    sweetpotato Member

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    if cheating i dont give 2nd chances. there is smthing obviousl wrong with the relationship in the first place for one to cheat
     
  7. desibattousai

    desibattousai Member

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    depends on what they did and what their reason is? if they cheated and they know it was wrong, then no second chance, i would drop them right there on the spot. but that is the only reason i can think of for giving them a second chance
     
  8. larlarlar

    larlarlar Well-Known Member

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    Depends on the personality of the other person. If I know how they are, even if they are sorry about it they might do it again.
     
  9. rave13

    rave13 Well-Known Member

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    Depends how much you love the other person? After all, everybody makes mistakes.
     
  10. NYGirl83

    NYGirl83 Active Member

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    Arguments are inevitable in any kind of relationship and they are fine as long as they do not happen on a regular basis. Cheating, however, is not okay and I won't give second chances if it's cheating.
     
  11. Chloee

    Chloee Well-Known Member

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    I always believe that everyone deserves a second chance, but it depends on the situation too
     
  12. xdopeylicious

    xdopeylicious Member

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    if i still have feelings for that guy, if i really do love him, no matter what he done wrong i'll forgive him. in a relationship, there's always someone that needs to give in and solve the fight before it goes beyond the point, and i'm willing to do it for the guy that i love.
     
  13. shy31279girl

    shy31279girl Well-Known Member

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    Depending if the person deserve a second chance. If it's something unforgivable then forget it,