Should I ask her out again?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by the_alphabetman, Jan 16, 2007.

  1. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    maybe you should try the other approach be more conservative and chat around with her and joke around. Slowly see how much u like her and if you really think that is not worth wasting time just go to her and be like I really like you do you want to be my girlfriend? I mean its direct and simple.. At least you dont have to waste time anymore.
     
  2. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    She already told u no meng, have some self respect .

    Just talk to her and when the time comes, it comes.

    -cool
     
  3. Edina

    Edina Well-Known Member

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    I think you should ask her again, even if she hasn't feelings for you, she should tell you directly what she is thinking, cause I think it's not fair to "keep you warm" with not telling you whats going on. I, personally, would like to see a guy who doesn't give up so fast. :)

    Good luck :)
     
  4. Ha, ha, Densha Otoko... Well, I guess I've already taken the first step for otakus by asking for advice here.
     

  5. lol ok you lost me.. -lol is that some kinda anime.?? -huh xD


    ahahha for reals.. just be like.. ayy baby I'm the_alphabetman and I will A B C.. you later.. -cool -lol
     
  6. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    Well, it depends on how well u know her. no? I say to take the time to get to know her. No rush, no pressure.
     
  7. Densha Otoko is supposedly based on a Japanese BBS thread. The story is, an otaku (geek) helps a beautiful woman who is being harassed by a drunk man on the subway. He posts to the BBS about it, and later when she sends him a thank-you gift he solicits for advice from the other posters. The relationship picks up from there, with him constantly asking for advice online.

    There was a movie and a drama series made that was based on this story, but I have no idea if the original thread was actually genuine or not.
     
  8. Edina

    Edina Well-Known Member

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    Yes, that's right! I totally agree...but saying "I have no time" isn't a no, so please

    don'tgive up ;)

    I'm sorry, sometimes I cannot write what I really mean, cause I don't have the

    english words for that, so it is really hard for me to express what I mean. Do you

    know her well?
     
  9. well jus have adrianc play the drunken guy and you're good to go.. -lol
     
  10. yuriyun3

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    as for my opinion, I think you should ask again...^_^
     
  11. Yvey816

    Yvey816 New Member

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    i say u should. just try asking her out n hang out as a group. that wont be as awkward if nething. talk to her n stuff. see how she response to u. n just go from there. step by step u know?. have some confidence in urself. neways good luck!!
     
  12. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    She said she was busy didnt say no so he didnt really ask her to be his gf just a day out
     
  13. Edina

    Edina Well-Known Member

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    That's exactly what I think :)
     
  14. BlueMoon

    BlueMoon Active Member

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    that`s just soooo oldskool :D :D lol
    i kept on remembering the old movies where a bunch of guys were harrassing a girl which happens to pass by.. and there`s always the HERO .. comes alng and saves her :p ... it is based on a real thread btw.. and it`s still exist .. a friend of mine gave me the link last time.. but i`ve forgot the address :D :D

    *sigh.. no wonder girls are head over heels in love with heros :p

    Densha Otoko is The Train Man.. the story is pretty much like ABCD man said .. and i watched the drama which pretty much a bit boring, since the Otaku is seriously geeky :D .. well who ever plays the series seriously pull it off though :D .. but watchin the people`s expression when they replied the thread was fun though.. LOL ...

    u should watch the series :D ..

    and that`s a pretty good line u got there ..

    >> ayy baby I'm the_alphabetman and I will A B C.. you later.. <<

    alphabetman u shud try those.. :D :D
     
  15. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    my god i seriously hope you dont use that line -nono
     
  16. BlueMoon

    BlueMoon Active Member

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    hahahah yea..
    she`ll smack u on the head with a broom stick so hard u`ll get amnesia and forgot bout her :D :D
     
  17. AVANT

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    What's with all the people that believes the girl didn't say no?

    Busy + Not leaving contact info + Not leaving an available time = NO

    Most cute girls that I've met/known can't give forward answer to those type of questions because they don't want to be "mean".

    However, a "no" doesn't mean you can't try again. In fact, there are some that finds such persistent types attractive, but you need to step your game up and engage her in a challenging way so you can catch and maintain her interest, otherwise the answer will still be some form of no even if you ask a million times.
     
  18. DingDongbb

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    I say go for it man. If you really like this girl then go for it. It's not going to kill you...
     
  19. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    wat is it u like about this gurl anyways?

    her looks? smarts? wits? bod? common interests? computers, school?

    or is it the thrill of the hunt :)

    that might help answer ur question.
     
  20. maitrihawk

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    If you are so into her, you should just go for it and ask her out again. If you feel that she is the one for you. My opinion is too go all the way even if you are turn down. Being presistence doesn't doesn't make a girl look at you as a loser. Being true and fair to yourself is what important in in your love life.