Should i interfere with a relationship??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mushoo92, Aug 17, 2008.

  1. Flames

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    You don't know, sometimes that little shove might break there relationship and you snatch the bf, win win win -devil
     
  2. mkfk1

    mkfk1 Well-Known Member

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    many people say dont do it.... what if u are the guy who can choice. If u are the guy, and u break the relationship before offically starting with the 3rd person. I think thats alright. But if the guy cheat on his gf, then thats not fine.

    In my book, there is a differences between cheating, and being the 3rd person.
     
  3. if u really meant that much to him he wouldn't have gone out with that girl so quickly... u can flirt some more till he breaks up with her n become his gf... but dun forget he could do the same thing to u if u become his gf...
     
  4. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Was this topic even made to be flamed?
     
  5. beckham

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    happiness is something u need to fight urself
    some more chances wont come twice...
     
  6. sweet_heart

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    You shouldn't interfere with this relationship.. and you wouldn't want him to break up with his current girl. If he can do it to her.. he can do it to you. Once a liar, always a liar. Same thing. You should just move on and find another guy. There are plenty of good guys out there. =)
     
  7. cl0ne666

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    what goes around comes around, if he doesnt like that girl he'd dump her soon enough or maybe hes just playing around.
     
  8. stealth_dragon

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    we understand u have ur feelings as well and urs is important than the other 2... but ask urself, what is worth it?

    think about the problems u might cause.... maybe u and him can/will never be friends.... what is important 2 you?

    like what [ Resentless ] said... if he is able to dump her for you, what happens if his EX comes back again and tells him 2 dump you? thought bout that?
     
  9. zxorated

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    karma's a b!tch!
    even though you don't know him(karma) that well but he(karma) will come back and smack u shitless later in life for ruining people's relationship.

    i was in the same situation. hooked up with some dude's girl and kinda fell inlove with her then got my heart broken for a whole damn year..
     
  10. vangirl86

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    The relationship was not strong to begin with if you can easily come between them. Yes, I agree with everyone else here, he will do the same to you when he finds someone else better.
     
  11. emawlee28

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    ur fucking dumb . he has a girl . man keep it that way karma baby . watch out
     

  12. Do you consider this to be a good thing??, dont you think he flirts with other girls too? or is he the faithful type who flirts? last one makes no sense lolz

    leave him alone, people tend to want what they dont have
     
  13. AC0110

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    I hate human =(

    We can never be satisfy ^^

    That's why I love being human =)...

    Yea.. I know.... -_-
     
  14. Kaitou_Kid

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    ahaha. omg this kind of sounds like me. i liked a guy for 3 yrs and we had stuff going on too. He took me by the wrist and we were walking with each other down a couple of streets (awkwardly...his friend was there) and then i took his hand off and then we kinda stopped talking and then i found out he had a girlfriend and had the biggest beetch fit! i waited for him to break up with her, but we hung out during when they were together. and then 2 months later, my dream came true...and 3 months later, my dream ended... but definitely go for it if you feel its worth it. tell him you like him. depends what kind of guy he is. is he nice or is he a d-bag. cause when i told my friend i liked him, he told me if i had told him, he would've ended the other relationship.
     
  15. tonkachi

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    i think resentless is right...if he's willing to dump his current girl for you whats to stop him later on from dumping you for another girl...its definitely not a good indicator. i would just let fate have at it...if your meant to be with him then your meant to be with him no matter the time or distance or watevers...if not then not

    lots of fish in the sea just swim around you'll find another one
     
  16. Tamaki

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    do it... alls fair in love and war ;D
     
  17. wysandman

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    if you want to be a bitch interfere.
    if you want to be respected let it go.
     
  18. xzmicozx

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    Offline 08-17-2008

    i think this thread is closed
     
  19. DopeyD

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    If you can stand between the relationship than I would say the relationship was weak in the first place, it's actually quiet hard to tear a happy couple apart so if the signs are there I would say let nature take it's course.
     
  20. TeejK

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    if you have not been dissuaded yet, it's clear you want to .. DO IT!

    from a masculine perspective.. DO IT ! it's not like they're married

    .. lol but acktually the choice is up to you

    i wouldn't recommend it if you want a stable ROMANTIC relationship (if dude's willing to cheat on her he's willing to cheat on you)

    -if you want him to break up with the girl.. lol.. idk.. if he was a man and you rocked his socks he would've taken you by now.

    but if you want some hot sex and get the emotions flowing there's no better than forbidden love (at least imo, personal pref really)


    heh


    btw. having you on the side is gonna be a huge ego boost for the dude so don't pretend like he's gonna love you, or u have a serious relationship lined up

    -uhhh.. whered that come from?? lol.. you gotta know what u getting urself into girl

    remember HOT SEX! live yo life how u wanna live it.. if you did exactly what everyone else wanted of you you'll never be happy.


    sit down weigh the good and the bad and decide if you really wanna do it lol

    hot night out =yes
    lurve <3=don't even think about it :D


    oh yeah if yo dude serious prize.. he'll treat it like whatever.. we jus having fun.. but chances are he'll be like. OMG I'M A PIMP and tell all his friends
     
    #40 TeejK, Dec 24, 2008
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