Should i interfere with a relationship??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mushoo92, Aug 17, 2008.

  1. wack0z

    wack0z Active Member

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    take it or leave it situation
     
  2. WingLin

    WingLin Active Member

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    i think hes just using u...dont fall for it and dump him
     
  3. AZN-511

    AZN-511 Well-Known Member

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    The question you need to ask is if this guy actually does break up with the girl he is currently with, what will stop him from doing the same thing to you when another girl comes along.
     
  4. kojikat

    kojikat Member

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    Nah, don't do it
    You should have got with him when you had that chance lol
    there's a lot of guys out there anyway, don't have to stick to one
     
  5. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    Forget about him and move on. Imagine someone did that too you. ditto like everyone else. If he can do it to her, he can do it to you. On top of that you are being a bit selfish. Not much...just a bit lol but that's perfectly normal, human nature right? :p
     
  6. jtommy87

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    I don't think you should interfere with their relationship.You will regret it later on. I don't think he should be flirting with you either since he have a girlfriend.
     
  7. ajree

    ajree Active Member

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    Do only what is delivered in the comfort of your heart. And dont harm others
     
  8. gentle_br3eze

    gentle_br3eze Well-Known Member

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    don't interfere unless the guy wants to be with you more than his gf coz you'll prob end up getting hurt....
     
  9. Nexix

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    interfering with the relationship isn't probably the best thing to do. since you do really like him, one thing you can do is stay close with him and wait until their relationship ends especially since you stated that you told him you still liked him
     
  10. babygoofy

    babygoofy Member

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    it all really depends really..
     
  11. charmful

    charmful Member

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    it depends if you really love that person and you think it's worth it.
     
  12. i think you should not interfer if they have been together for a long time but, for me if it was a few days they been dating i would interfer.
     
  13. twfidgit

    twfidgit Member

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    Just continue to talk to him and be friends, see how far that would go...see if he is happy with his currrent gf and wait until they break up i guess,
     
  14. lilx13aby

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    eh....i think its jsut the timing between you guys are not right, why should u interfer since he already have a girl, i am sure u will find someone else, u dont wnat to feel bad for the rest of the time, if he can ditch that girl becasuse of u, it could be possible for him to ditch you for another girl. I think karma is a big thing in a relationship. I think u have to really think twice before u make that decision, and really think if its worth it.
     
  15. boxz

    boxz Banned

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    lol that is exactlly what happen to me too. I don know what to do. I just moved on because I believe she would talk to me again later on
     
  16. dkamho

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    Well, this all depends if he makes you happy and happy with the arrangements then go ahead! As long as you don't let his gf find out. Anyway you may find someone single but he may treat you badly but that is your decision.
     
  17. lazyxbutt

    lazyxbutt Member

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    hes a playa girl get away. he playfully flirts with u when his girl isnt around that no good. if he really like his girl he wold not flirt with u. and hes playing with ur mind. stay away juss be friends
     
  18. jonathan86111

    jonathan86111 Member

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    Maybe u can wait them naturally break up and console him that time and maybe he will fall in love with u?? just my opinion
     
  19. Raul_H

    Raul_H Member

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    Interfering would be unethical. Unless you feel this other girl is harmful to him in a serious manner.
     
  20. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    lawl... i flirt around with other guys than my bf... but that doesnt make me thinking about breaking up with my bf for any of them... its just kinda way of living... just having fun... but in the end im always my bf's ^^