Should i interfere with a relationship??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mushoo92, Aug 17, 2008.

  1. ashitaka1984

    ashitaka1984 Member

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    I'll prefer to keep myself away from interrupting other's ppl relationships.
     
  2. heartillygrl

    heartillygrl Member

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    i dont think u should interfere..if he cheat with u ..he'll cheat on u
     
  3. cav1783

    cav1783 Member

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    Of course no. There is only few 3 possibility for interfering, 1. that guy will break up with his gf for you, but this might happen to u in future too. 2. this guy will reject you, after that both of you will feel awkward even talking to each other which means you will lose a friend. 3. He will want you and the gf at the same time. Then you will suddenly be the third party in the relationship and will always being blame for jeopardize the relationship he had with his current gf
     
  4. Eloi

    Eloi Member

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    Stop flirting I guess. Since if he goes for you the same thing gonna haunt back at you soon and if he is not going for you why do you even bother?
     
  5. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    first do u really like him that much? like if u do that do u no that many ppl will dislike u for ur action...
     
  6. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    second does he even like u that much that he would break up with her gf? even if he did u urself may feel guilty
     
  7. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    cuz thats what happened to me... me and her had this guilt that messed up our relation
     
  8. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    and then u would always think that could happen to u... and that becomes an invisable wall between u guys... arguement will keep coming up... even if its somethign that has nothing to do with it cuz inside of u u can't really seem to trust him/her and trust is a serious problem
     
  9. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    and at the end u guys would be always fighting or getting mad at each other over little things... and then the break up... BUT if u guys can work it out it would be great.. but its hard and not easy... if u belive in him and urself then go for it if u really like him that much
     
  10. kenboi2

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    Maybe everyone is quite different when it comes to interfering a relationship. They have been together for almost a year. It looks like they kinda have feeling for each other. Yes, in deed, you met him first, but if the other girl is a nice person and being nice to him, I wouldn't interfere in it. But, if you know the other girl is not serious about him, then it's okay to do it. That's just my 2 cents.
     
  11. hsuli84

    hsuli84 Member

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    just becareful, as you migth be leaving for something you're unsure off..
     
  12. erict1628

    erict1628 Member

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    I don't understand why girls ask stupid questions like this. Why the hell do you want to interfere with his relationship. So what if you successfully make him break up with his girlfriend or cheat on his girlfriend? If he's that type of guy, then he'll do the exact same thing to you later on.
     
  13. winniieli

    winniieli New Member

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    honestly, you should move on. this guy sounds very untrustworthy. if he really liked you, he would not get with a girl a bit after your fling with him. the fact that he would even flirt with a girl when he has a girlfriend shows what type of person he is
     
  14. erict1628

    erict1628 Member

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    That's exactly what I'm talking about. If he flirts with you when he's with another girl, what makes you think he won't flirt with another girl when he's with you?
     
  15. dragon3003

    dragon3003 Member

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    It depends on your definition of interfering. If you want the other person the break up with their partner and be with you, that is just wrong. But then again that is my view, some may perceive it as taking fate into their own hands.
     
  16. mushoo92

    mushoo92 Member

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    thanks guys for all the opinions. we're normal then normal friends. but im actually happy i messed up their relationship a little bit because his gf is such a two face bitch =)