Should I just Move on?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by HoNgKoNgKoBe, Dec 20, 2007.

  1. HoNgKoNgKoBe

    HoNgKoNgKoBe Member

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    #21 HoNgKoNgKoBe, Dec 26, 2007
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  2. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    I think you should move on. If you guys are really meant to be, you guys will be together one day. Plus you're only 17 right? There's so much more you don't know and haven't seen. Reserve judgement till then. If she's the one you'll both get there eventually.
     
  3. cyndy123

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    if u still both love each other, you should wait and see what happens. You'll regret if you moved on and she still loves you after graduation - u will ask yourself, y did you gave up and didn't wait. Anyway good luck
     
  4. HoNgKoNgKoBe

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    #24 HoNgKoNgKoBe, Dec 27, 2007
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  5. cyndy123

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    i guess u have made your choice. u kinda want to move on because u know she got over u and as u said it's no point. But what do you think?
     
  6. HoNgKoNgKoBe

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  7. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Go hang out with your friends or do something that will drain you mentally as well as physically.
     
  8. winds talking about shooting up some heroine..
     
  9. BigC

    BigC Well-Known Member

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    ^^ Or maybe he's talking about MJ?
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  10. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Was i? -bigsmile
     
  11. haha i dunno.. you tell me..
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Im telling OP thats how Ecko does it when hes mending from a brokenheart :p
     
  13. kchoong

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    i would say, take a chance coz chance to find someone as special as the person you are talking about is hard. people go from relationship to relationship and they get messed about. they are careful about who they let into their lives after that so even the great guys who could be, don't get the chances coz of the girls past experiences. so if she is the girl who u feel can make u happy, i would sit her down and just tell her that its too hard to be her friend. that all good things that last start of as friends. you to have a great friendship but it could be so much more but you will never find out unless you try. you both have to try, coz even if it doesnt work, you to are close enough to talk it through just like how u have talked it through about how u feel already. if you don't take the chance and see how it goes, u will never know, my advice is, never let a chance go, coz once it is gone, you'l regret it for the rest of your life. the longer you leave it, the more likely she will meet someone else. now that will kill you inside as it has done for me in the past. be a man, do something about it!
     
  14. cadeline

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    You are 17. You had two years ahead of her. Please give her a chance to grow. Frankly, you have a good friendship going but if you can't handle not wanting to "have" her then you've got to move on. There is an old saying that if you love someone, you have to set her free. If she comes back, then she's yours but if she doesn't, then she never was.

    It's painful but you've got to bite the bullet.
     
  15. cicipeepee

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    i think you should wait for her... but i think as time goes by.. ur going to find someone else you like.. and stop likeing the girl you currently think you like.
     
  16. HoNgKoNgKoBe

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  17. wind2000

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    From what i was reading from my psych book, the more you try to suppress something, the more it will be on your mind. IMO, you should simply focus on other things at the moment, concentrate at school and being an optimistic person, just follow this saying that "good things come to those who wait for". in your case, wait for another girl to come into your life.
     
  18. HoNgKoNgKoBe

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  19. aniking_7

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    Just a good friend that you can get advice and talk to when need help but isn't your cup of tea or maybe you'll change your mind later.
     
  20. jdm_s2k

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    all girls want to be treated as angels and princesses in reality they DONT!....jsut throw them on a side and ignore them...thats what they deserve really....when a clingy guy comes along...thats the victim.....you on the other hand? just enjoy life ...go to college...get a good career...make lots of money...then u wont be worried about women or girls anymore....trust mee....!

    17? true love? BLAH....1 in 10 maybe....im pretty sure your not the 1 out of 10..

    anyone agree w/ me?

    she wants attention...just ignore her or KEEP IT SHORT! REALLY SHORT!