Should I?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ChaosMag3, Apr 5, 2008.

  1. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    lookin back at the original post....

    its been about 1 week right?

    what is the update?
     
  2. ChaosMag3

    ChaosMag3 Active Member

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    oh thanks. sorry i haven't been on PA. uh. so i've been waiting for things to settle downish these last three weeks

    i asked her because this guy, that talks to her a lot kept pressuring me too. and + the fact that he once said "he can almost guarantee that i won't get rejected" he gave a reason, but it's obviously a lie.

    and an update: last week. i was walking by in the opposite direction. and i saw her, and i got this feeling that she was sort of "staring" at me. (no i don't get this often)

    oh after i asked her out like right after, her close friend came by, and i think she told her friend, and she was sort of laughingish. (like smiling kindish)
     
  3. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    GET TO KNOW HER THEN, LOL. OR GET HER TO KNOW YOU! SIMPLE!! You don't just ask her out again, if you guys are both concern about you guys being strangers to each other, then talk and go out more as friends.
     
  4. THis guy is on point....
     
  5. darkkcl

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    just do it en try it out, you never know
     
  6. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    show ur dedication, get to know her better and then ask her out. besides if u know her better u will have a clearer idea to whether u like her or not.
     
  7. [N]

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    i think you should at least attempt to get to know her better and see if things work out, but if in the end it still doesn't work or she is actually using this excuse to reject you in the first place. Then i guess go hit on some other chick.
     
  8. if you dont try.. how do you know the results ;)
     
  9. kiwi3y

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    isn't "dating" considered getting to know each other? it's not like you're committing to a serious relationship. doesn't hurt to hang out and get to know each other.
     
  10. ~Eternity~

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    The whole point of going out is to get to know each other better... And yes... you never know if you don't try....:)
     
  11. cottoncandybabe

    cottoncandybabe Well-Known Member

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    joker!

    why ask someone out if u dont even know em that well? lol

    no seriously, the chances of it lasting are quite low

    get to know her better cuz if u didnt & she just said yes,

    i bet u, ur guna find sumat out u dont like or some stupid habit

    & be like wth what was i thinking lol

    haha not saying u got bad judgement with who u pick :p
     
  12. cadeline

    cadeline Well-Known Member

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    Isn't asking some one out a way of getting to know one another? A little confusing here. Perhaps an invitation to a coffee or lunch is less intimidating.
     
  13. cottoncandybabe

    cottoncandybabe Well-Known Member

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    ohhhhhhh is that what he meant?? lol

    i dont get why that would be a problem at all though :S

    if its just for a date then go for it really

    if it doesnt turn out too well, just dont see em again =] sorted
     
  14. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    well its been awhile again and so many different new posts...

    original poster is still thinking?

    all you said was you asked again...

    wahts result? i mean even if she said no....what kinda no?
     
  15. ChaosMag3

    ChaosMag3 Active Member

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    well the point of asking her out before is to get to know her better, but i didn't exactly specifiy that, and all she said was that she doesn't know me that well, and she doesn't think i know her that well .etc.

    basically yeah.

    and oh, i'm not just going to just ask her again but rather get to know her first. so yeah
     
  16. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    haha you never know it might work out so yeah go for it
     
  17. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    Yes you have to wait the best time for that thing. Because its true. She don't know you then how she can trust you ? Its all about you. Leave this thing and just try to win her trust. Give her time. Try to know that what she like ? Be a nice in front of her. After a couple of month or weeks offer her for date ;)
     
  18. schung23

    schung23 Well-Known Member

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    totally dude.