yes but the.. Oh.. I'm going somewhere with this guy.. is a lil played out. Take care of him like you always do.. make him feel secure.. then leave him alone and ignore him. He'll either feel lost or gets with someone else.. but either way.. he'll come runnin' back to you, for that sense of security. Act very mature and dress super sexy when you're out with him and a bunch of his friends..
definately bf material hisfriends know me by his nick name for me which is a chinese spin on my chinese name' he lso talks to me about his two friends but no one else i know he's talks to them about me cause of many innicidences one time he was talking to me about one of them, and he said "(friend) has this girl problem and well i shouldn't tell u, cause he told me not to tell YOU oh but ur not going to see him anyways" hmmmm . . . but lately i haven't had much time to take care of him, now that his brother is in the way and he hates t when i dress sexy . . . he KNOWS i like him and i KNOW he feels something for me (how much is what i'm not sure about)\ and one time, there was this one guy who was chasing me, and one day he tried to put a move on me and i old the guy about it and he said I KNEW IT he knew it before, but he pretended not to know i think he wanted to know more how i would end up dealing with it and he acted smooth about it (but i think he was just acting, but how much can u see over the phone?)
Here we go... after a long break.. -lol Basically you're playing with fire... You have a brother who looks after his younger brother. Then you got the guy.. lot younger than you.. doesn't seem like he's attracted to you.. physically?? I would think the dressing up sexy thing would make him jealous..
One way to solve it.... ASK HIM DIRECTLY! bring it up! ask him 'do he consider me more then a friend' If he says yes... just say yeah me too then make a small move in. If no then just make the excuse 'oh it just that I heard some rumours that why I asked' Pretty safe lol! guys are direct, they suck at mind reading
yeah hes probably scared to make the first move since hes younger than you, maybe he feels intimidated by the age gap thing. That's why i reckon you should just straight up approach him and tell him what you think, either way you will come out a winner. If he feels the same way and wants to get into a relationship with you then thats good, if not then at least you can just stay as friends and move onto someone else. Better to know now than later on when you become too attached and can easily get hurt if he doesn't want to do the gf/bf thing.
I am chicken $hit actually I've always dated or had crushes someone the same age or older than me, he is the first guy i've ever even liked someone younger than me it's actually quite refreshing yes
^ chicken $hit? thats the first time i hear that LOL heres what happened to a friend. just talk on the phone with him, and suddenly, you come across the love topic. you ask who he likes. facilitate it for him. if he says you, then there you go. if he says he doesnt know, be like.. do you like me? and he'll have to answer. if he says yes, you say i like you too. theres gonna be a silence. then one of you two will ask the other out.
actually I ment.. if you asked him that.. lol you're chicken shit.. he's chicken shit.. Tell him you think you guys should jus stop hanging out because you think the brother doesn't like you hanging with his bro.. if that's not the case then there is seriously something going on..
how come people have never heard of chicken $hit tell him to stop hanging out? what do you expect that to end with?
oh right.. lol didn't seem to finish that.. umm yea see what his reactions are to that.. I mean you gotta do something that'll make him decide if he should go out with you and get him to reveal it....
i say the best thing to do is to let him know. by letting him know, you instantly get rid of the barrier that is separating you guys, and its going to be MUCH easier for the dude to express what he feels. trust me. when you let that be known, it instantly releases all the built up pressure from you, and it feels MUCH better. its like boiling water. vapor escapes when you open the lid, thus reducing the pressure built up in the bowl.
I also would ask him directly or if you're too shy choose the childish way and write a letter^^..the point is HE has to know how YOU feel and YOU have to know how HE feels. Ehhh...did I miss something? How old are you and how old is he? Is there a big gap? And what's about this older brother (????), I thought he is a "really close friend" *confused*
