i'm 22, the brother is 23 the guy is 19 we have a three year age difference there is also the issue he might be thinking, "she's my brother's really close friend" and also think about, would you want to date someone within your group of friends, now mix that a bit, do you want someone in your group of friends dating another friend within that group (that can cause trouble later on if things go bad) now then think, do you want someone within your circle of friends dating your younger brother (the person you need to take care of?) no matter if you trust them or not, anything can always arise right? so i kinda do understand why the brother is acting the way he is but doen'st mean i like it . . .
i dont know how to react to that it's interesting i always thought i would go for a guy that was older than me more mature than me i'm a little strange those silly girls, who act younger than they are but know how to act there age when nessary, like at work i act like a kid, but i know how to be professional i should say so some of my ex's say things like "act your age" or make comments to show they dont like me acting like a child sometimes anyways, like i said he's been refreshing, i can act as cute and young as i want with him and he also has this young, (non stiff) personality which well, makes me not feel so confined that i am acting to childish although i have had a few incidences that he even told me to act my age LOL but my personality, the youngness, makes people realize how much i love children i love playing with themmmm!!!!!!!! and apparently this guy loves kids too such an attractive trait of his
well I know one thing.. bout 80% of the guys on "can I say no to a little kid?" thread would not be right for you... -lol ok if you don't want to risk it.. you can do nothing and stay as friends... I don't see the whole close friend thing as being something to be concerned about.. maybe it's because u act too childish?? at first I thought you being older you'd be more mature around him... so now we have a guy thinking.. oh she's older than me.. but acts much younger...?? Maybe he expects u to be more mature..?? But who freakin' knows what's goin on inside that guys head.. if he doesn't flirt with u much.. he's probably just not interested.. hell maybe he gets his brother to act an ass just so he can avoid you.. I dunno.. lotta possibilities... what exactly are you planning to do??
Hmmm...don't get me wrong, but if I have a really close friend and he/she is really in love or interested in my brother that wouldn't be a problem. Cause I love all my "close" friends otherwise they wouldn't be my "close" friends and for sure I love every single member of my family...do you know what I want to say? Why couldn't these 2 ppl I like/love are happy together? And if the older Brother knows what's going on between you and his brother, why doesn't he say anything to you, his close friend? Is it better for him to see his brother AND his friend sad? Does anybody understand me *g*-unsure Hmmm....sure I know what YOU mean with this circle of friends thing, but I (personally) don't see a problem in that.
But this problem I also know very well, my bf says that all the time to me ^_^ He is the totally opposite of me. And I'm 2 years older than you...hmmm...maybe I should grow up..pfff o_o
for now i'm waiting things out see how things are turning cause right now things are jumping in all sorts of directions i'm going to let things settle first if they settle in my favor, than maybe i'll try something if they settle in not my favor maybe it's time i move on
did i ever mention this guy sometimes gives me alot of mixed signals after not seeing him in over two weeks but haveing nightly phone converstaions 80% of the nights for over an hour i got him to come over for dinner (which involved his brother getting very upset) anyways, i think that's a good sign? he stayed much longer and we watched tv together the thing is i dont know if he came over because he wanted to or because i asked him to and he didn't want to say no again
well was he acting very comfortable around you?? any touching going on? if he at least made the effort to have dinner then... wait nevermind scratch that.. yea so do you think he's interested in you??
pshhh. whatever mang.. aren't you supposed to be sleepin?? I can't wait to find out the ending to this story..
no, we hung out like we always do he's a very shy boy, so ECKO you were correct about someone getting pissed, HA HA HA that wasn't very cool . . . we had to work around trying to manipulate how to get his brother to let him go that was a weird run around in circles all in all, once again proved that his brother hates us being together, even though we are still friends
oh yes.. time to start my psychic hotline.. well now we know his big brothers got a big part in this.. time to plan out how to make him disappear... -lol but yea.. he probably knows you trying to put the moves on his lil bro.. so he's pissed.. but the REAL question is.. does his lil bro even like you..?? or is his brother holding him back...?
like i said before what I believe (which i know i may be wrong) is that he likes me, but maybe not enough to start something becuase he's not the guy who turns out a gf within two months of dumping the last one he's one who dates if he's sure that they may have a possible future . . . but i cant really say anything against that, cause i'm quite similar, i dont date for fun, i date people who i EXTREMELY like so he may like me now? but can't see me as his future wife WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH so what? i have to do stuff to convince him so? i've talked to a few friends, for their outside eyes they see something is up with him, he obviously has some sort of feelings for me but dont understand what is going on with him
if you're lookin' for a hubby and not a bf.. then you're pretty screwed.. If he can't get over the girl after two months.. then it's probably best, you stopped waiting. And it is not the best to let him know.. you like him waaayyy.. more than he does with you.. your friends may just be trying to make you feel better...
it's not that he can't get over a girl it's that's he's not scared to be single he doesn't need to jump back into relationships not one of those who are afraid to be alone and the friends thing, in some cases i know what they are saying are to make me feel better, but in these cases i was thinking aobut when reposting, not really cause more than one of my friends have actually come up to me (with them having NO clue i liked him) asking me if he liked me
