more details would be great are you actually going for her ? or are you trying to chat to her as a friend ? how well do you know her?
what would chat to her as a friend got to do with her ex, lol anyway , u gotta make her forget bout her ex, if u want a relationship with her, otherwise , he might come back and steal her, lol Prove to her , how bad he is -devil
lol if you really like this girl like phil said get her to get over that guy by any means necessary otherwise the thing is that it will be super awkward
give it time... if its a fresh break up where he broke it off then it will take time for it to heal.... just tell her to move on, keep herself busy, meet new people, do new things like take a new hobbie! Like Mariah Carey's song - "love takes time to heal when you're hurting so much"
^ I just took that risk last sunday...was nervous the whole time and thinking that she might go OMG wtf and scare her away...but things turn well, she was happy lol, but still I actually wanted her to go liking me lol
more like I have no clue...I have trouble reading expressions unless they're obvious...but we're talking about you not me ><"
lol u need the 我愛碧咸 spray! spray it and makes you look like Beckham in their eyes, and then no more EX
flaming? lets talk about her body language..? not obvious? phil, c'mon plz....REALISTIC suggestions here....! lol.... edit: new thought, how often do u guys talk or should i talk to her? dont want to seem like im bothering her u know?
@jdm_s2k: Hey, Just be yourself, let her know that you're there for her as a friend, But don't push the friend thing too far, or you'll forever stay as friends. When you're with her, always avoid talking about her ex and instead Show her, Let her know that you can take care of her (and while you're at it flirt abit). Be cheeky, like um, If you're crossing the road where theres no pedestrian lights and slow oncomming traffic, or in the rain, grab her hand and run across the street. give a call or a message, before she goes to bed message her "good night" and youll be the last person that she thinks about before she sleeps. or if she goes some improtant schedule like an exam or a job interview. Call her and wish her good luck. And, You need to ask yourself, What is more important to you right now? A relationship with her? or her friendship? Because know that if you do succeed with the relationship, and should it end, your friendship with her will never be the same. And should you want the friendship then you can not have the relationship. But yeh if its the relationship that you want then by all means go for it. And one last thing. If you know for certain that she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend, Then I would suggest waiting till she is over him. Because you'll only complicate the situation for her. Hope that helps.
