Talkin to a girl that isnt over the ex

jdm_s2k · Aug 23, 2008

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@jdm_s2k:

Hey, Just be yourself, let her know that you're there for her as a friend, But don't push the friend thing too far, or you'll forever stay as friends. When you're with her, always avoid talking about her ex and instead Show her, Let her know that you can take care of her (and while you're at it flirt abit). Be cheeky, like um, If you're crossing the road where theres no pedestrian lights and slow oncomming traffic, or in the rain, grab her hand and run across the street. give a call or a message, before she goes to bed message her "good night" and youll be the last person that she thinks about before she sleeps. or if she goes some improtant schedule like an exam or a job interview. Call her and wish her good luck.

And, You need to ask yourself, What is more important to you right now? A relationship with her? or her friendship? Because know that if you do succeed with the relationship, and should it end, your friendship with her will never be the same. And should you want the friendship then you can not have the relationship. But yeh if its the relationship that you want then by all means go for it.

And one last thing. If you know for certain that she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend, Then I would suggest waiting till she is over him. Because you'll only complicate the situation for her.

Hope that helps.
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i thought about all what u have said about its just a little hard to put words into reality...if you know what i mean?

ill never know when she is over her ex you know? we talk occassionally but your right about the good night thing....maybe ill try that and see what happens..

when you say complicate...like forcing her to choose?

we did have a chat once and she started asking me questions like...do i like anyone? what kind of girls do i like? am i interested in anyone? etc...many questions.....

someone told me....that she wants to know if i like anyone ....like shes tryin to guess im really interested in her or am i just being a friend to her....

ugh...i think im gonna try ask her for a date soon...

MunMun · Aug 29, 2008

well if the girl isnt over her ex and you get with her then you could just end up being the rebound

giovannidattoma · Nov 19, 2009

I believe that, if the girl loves you, and by telling her that talking about her ex-boyfriend is affecting you. She'll cut down, and a few months later, everything would be over.

Talkin to a girl that isnt over the ex

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