well all i got to say is do what u gotta do and i guess hope for the worse. yea me and my gf were slowly falling apart. she didn't give me much attention no more and we're no longer together. i guess i just have to give her some time to think where i'm not with her. do what u gotta do sorry to say this but the truth hurts. good thing is we're still good friends. still talk to her on a daily basis cause she calls me
shiet dude im sorry to hear this but dont give up. if she has memory lost. just do what adam sandler does in his first 50 dates movie hehe
^ adam sandler is in no way or should be a guideline for dating LMFAO...... Wow you live in MA too? lol I live in Malden MA if you know where that is hahaha
instead of calling her every 2 hours try calling once a day. if you dont you'll go crazy cause you seem to need to talk to her constantly. try once a day at the same time every day. the time you used to spend calling her try putting together a scrap of pictures and stuff that you've done. i know it's corny but hey at least this way she'll have something to refer to when it comes to your relationship! you could videotape yourself as well at the places the two of you used to go to ie: where you went for your first date you're so young and having to go through this. i really am sorry
hm...she called me today and said that the doctor said that she has lupus in her kidney T__T, when will she be able to get better. it hurts seeing her going through so much pain >< damn lupus..
this really sucks with the short term memory loss... if it wasn't for that i'd suggest that you do some research and like some people said, it's not life threatening... so you could talk to her about it. keep her hopes high or something.
Oh god, that's a tough situation you're in, dude. Long distance is hard enough without other things going on. First off, my suggestion is not to call her as often as you do. My ex used to do that and it drove me crazy. I can see you worry about her, but calling her constantly isn't going to make things better. If she's sick, she's got other things to worry about too and your calls might just be interrupting some other important things. Not to mention, by constantly calling her to see if she's okay, you're probably reminding her just how bad things are. If you're going to do anything, try taking her mind off of being sick. As for not talking as often as before, dude, she's sick! She obviously cares about you a lot. If she didn't, she wouldn't, on the one hand, want to break up and then, on the other hand, ask for your support. She's struggling with wanting to spare you from watching her suffer and at the same time, she loves you so much that she trusts you to be her support. It's gotta be really rough on you, but right now, she needs you to be the strong one.
