unusual aquaintance/friend

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Jul 12, 2007.

  1. rsx

    rsx Well-Known Member

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    True. I find it that most of these "distant friendships" (if you would call it that) usually doesn't turn out too well. They're always put on the "lowest priority list."

    On several occasions, I would try in gathering some old friends (either from previous jobs, universities, etc.) and it almost usually never works out. I admit, it's frustrating when you put a decent amount of effort in trying to catch up on things and they never seem to have the time to do it.

    But yeah, don't misunderstand her desire to "catch up" with you to be some lesbian fantasy of hers. She's probably the type that wants to keep in touch with all her [once] "close" friends (or as lee-lee puts it, friends you "clicked" with).
     
  2. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Exactly. Just take what she's doing at face value.
    If you don't like her friendship, then decline her invitation to hang out.
    If you enjoy it, then the more you shouldn't think about why she's doing all this.
    No point making things complicated for yourself.
     
  3. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    smallrinilady do you love her then?
     
  4. shade

    shade Well-Known Member

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    it just seems like she's being friends with you...
    sorry, isn't that sort've what friends do?

    Either that, or I've got infinite girls after me...
     
  5. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    yeah i don't think its wierd at all. If you enjoy hanging out with her then nothing else matters. Hmm i don't know why your getting all suspicious for, it seems pretty natural for a friend to contact you after a long time and invite you to catch up etc.
     
  6. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    huh? where did that jump from
     
  7. wats_blue

    wats_blue Well-Known Member

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    i just think she just wants to keep in touch with you...be friends....
     
  8. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    ^ You mean she just want to keep on touching her.
     
  9. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    ^ zero is so definitely a guy
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^A guy answering questions in the guys ask girls' questions thread too...
     
  11. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Never said I was a girl........
     
  12. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    =.=" ... maybe zero is one of those "female soul in guys body"? =p jk...
     
  13. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Well some of the questions don't even require a girl to answer it.
     
  14. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    ^ But they're asking for a girl to answer right? For more confirmation, etc.
     
  15. khaotic

    khaotic Fobulous

    I hope this settles the argument....
     
  16. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Either this or someone isn't good at following rules. ;)
    But it isn't my thread... so ... *shrugs*
     
  17. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Hehe... So BBRain, what would you do if it WAS your thread?
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Hehehe you can see how I pester you if it was my thread right? *hint -that Analysis thread*

    I'll either get you to edit or get a mod to delete it haha.
     
  19. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    ^ Yeah, that's what I like about you. Hehe... Power to BBRAin. Hehe...
     
  20. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^I have to thank you nice peeps for cooperating with me ma -hug