dun drag on something that doesn't work, just let her go so she can find someone right for her. same for u ________ FUCK
I've been (or still being) in a sort of same kind of situation... and yeahh I accepted it... but... it's always... he changes... and in 1/2months he's the same old him again :( soooo... you should know what you're talking about when you say "things will change" and erhhh... hope it's just a phase of your relationship... good luck boii!
This relationship was built based on the emotions that you had in the times you spend together. The foundation is not firm or strong. Therefore it would be especially difficult for her when she is also young. She is not getting the "nurturing" that she yearns. If you feel that this relationship is very important to you, you have to make sacrifices and prioritise her. It might be worth you while or...not but it's a choice you have to make. Basically you "drew back" (from spending more time because of your work) after you initially started this before she is ready to "understand". Now you have to fix it.
wat? a man cant decide for himself and gotta ask for advice? a man gotta do things wit no regrets....i really mean it when i said "do wat u gotta do". Go ahead and throw a chair, go ahead and give the girl and guy a chance, mess wit him, mess wit her....... wateva it makes him feels better. Watever happens, happens, u kno? Im in the same situation wit wong here....with the only exception of break up. I go to work 12 hrs, from 10am-10pm. My girl goes to work from 9am-5:30pm. she gets home at 6. She makes dinner for me, take a bath, then tv and waits until i get home (i think). I get home, eat, then bath, and then sleeps. I dont even have the time to see her face.... However, the only time that we can chill and hangout is Sunday. .....and dude, wong, 4 months aint notin. Notin personal but im certain that u guys didnt went through THAT much.. try 6 1/2 yrs.
woh.... no need to "f" this n "f" that... i wasn't trying to offend u... it's just "just do wat u gotta do. Find the answer within deep in urself." to me it souds too errrr... abstruse... i dunno abt wongie but if i was in that situation i'd find 2 answers deep within myself... 1. is to break up, only 4 months... i'll b ok again after 2 bottles of Jack Daniel... or... 2. keep trying n trying...
i wasnt trying to swear at u. but if u were offended, my fault. i apologize. but jsut bare wit me. I just got use to it. "all auto-technicians r like that." they say........... ill edit it out.
just keep trying thats what i say. break up should be last resort rele. but ye every relationship has different phases and if u've lost feelings so quickly it obviously wasn't love must have been lust.
Its going to be hard to help because we need to see the whole scope of the situation. But my initial thoughts upon reading your post was that this is normal. I mean you are indeed stressed, so things will be a little different in your relationship. You just need to exercise some time management, and let her know that everythings alright, it is just that work is putting pressure on you, but reassure her that she's not the one causing your troubles or something like that. Good luck man...
*update* we broke up. maybe its for the good...... :( it gives us both time to think bout this n what ever happenes happenes
=( awww.....-flow...hope u ok wongie....and ur right... just go with the flow && for now..... take it easy and enjoy the single life -cool2
i just feel like there is some hidden fire in both of you that both of u need to find it out.... well... not like we wanna blame who for who for this that happened...but... both need to get a time..a real free time to sit and talk to it... all the best dude...
lol i mean what else can u do..... being together when u dont love is really ghey , its like u dont know what to say to each other anymore and it feels akward
ye breaking up was one of the options, the other would be to try hard to get back the feelings and then u could gather the fire backup but not many ppl are determined to keep the love they have these days.
^ i was trying to do sumthing to get it back but it didn't feel like she was putting n e thing in. she knows this and she even told me this. she said she feels really bad. i guess all i can do is just c what happens in the future. i'm still talking to her like everyday and it seems like we're still in good standings with eachother. it feels like how it felt b4 we got together
