What do you do if your lover is boring you?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aniking_7, Jul 3, 2007.

  1. shouldn't it b something like 6 in the morning right now in the US n u've been posting all night :p
     
  2. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    lol kind of, i think it was 3am or something.. but now i just wake up hah

    going to gym now.. i will post again waaaaay later tonight again.. maybe lol
     
  3. zer0

    zer0 Member

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    stir up some drama between you and him/her.

    after a heated argument, go bedroom.

    should work everytime.
     
  4. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Lol, if this work, i gotta say that you are one heck of a guy or girl.
     
  5. stephiexd

    stephiexd New Member

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    if ur lover is boring to you, maybe its time u think things over and see if you are willing to go on with the relationship because boredom leads to loss of feelings and then from there,it goes downhill.
    so its better to end it soon then drag it on.
     
  6. hmmmm... actually... that sounds like a pretty good idea...
     
  7. kymchan

    kymchan Well-Known Member

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    find a turning point in the relationship, or just move on
     
  8. wccw75

    wccw75 Member

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    how about making some argument up? like purposely argue with him/her about something that you know he/she doesn't like or have a different opinion.
     
  9. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    Listen to music...or get back to him later...
     
  10. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    lover ... well, it depends on how you define lovers. the definition of lovers could be someone you have sex with only. and if that's the case, and if you are bored with the current lover, time to dump his/her ass and find a new lover.
     
  11. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    You could bring out some excitement! or if its really that bad leave your lover. Or you could confess and say, your borrrringggg!
     
  12. Tubzilla

    Tubzilla Member

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    kick them in the balls and go do ur own thing
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Hmmm never tried that one... maybe i should... =)
    Anyway, my lover cant be boring because i dont like boring guys :p
     
  14. kashigal

    kashigal Well-Known Member

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    Hmm...Daydream about some hot guy =X
     
  15. tszeng

    tszeng Member

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    bondage seems to help out alot in dying relationships, I totally recommend it

    I also recommend incest
     
  16. Prettyholly3

    Prettyholly3 Member

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    Maybe take some time off and just spend time with your friends for awhile...then get back together and see what u guys can do. Absence makes the heart grow fonder?
     
  17. crasianlee

    crasianlee Well-Known Member

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    uh..
    try to go hang out with friends
    but if you guys stil want to stay together,
    at least talk to each other or hang out,
    try not to be bored of each other too long before you guys lose your feelings and break up
     
  18. abbaZabba

    abbaZabba Well-Known Member

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    Talk to them about it
     
  19. umiko

    umiko Member

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    relationship isn't always about fun, if its boring come up with something to do
     
  20. onelove

    onelove Well-Known Member

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    everyone defines 'boring' differently...like...if its u guys have nothing to talk bout it and its always awkward silence then i gotta say, either the relationship is not in full bloom or its deteriorating...

    otherwise...if its u guys cannot think of activities to do (other than sex)...maybe its cos theres limitations on money spending...or wherever u live is just a hole...so no..i dont have any ideas.

    love`
    mon