What do you do when feeling down?

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by titi, Jun 17, 2006.

  1. yeah... take her out shopping or something... she needs to meet new ppl to take her mind off the guys...
     
  2. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    she is attached to her bf...the original one...the new one didn't give up on her...they still talk...but she is avoiding him...and can't get her mind off her ex....would u give her another chance if u were her bf?
     
  3. no i don't think so
     
  4. i would... but that's coz i'm thinking like a man... the reality is men don't give second chances like that unless he's married to the woman... but even if he IS married to her 2nd chances rarely happens...
     

  5. i think it'd be hard to give her any kinda chance seeing as how unstable she is. so is her bf not forgiving her for cheating? she's regretting but too late for her...?? since the new guy still cares for her... she should jus get with him...
    The chick just seems like she can't make up her damn mind. If she's into cheating then wtf is she doing trying to get back with her bf???
     
  6. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    she's not into cheating...it just kinda happens...and like i said she can't explain why she does it...even tho she knows it will destroy her relationship w/ bf...this is such a mess...she makes me feel down
     
  7. peachey

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    If I were her boyfriend I would forgive her, because it wasn't intentional. Does her boyfriend know that she's seeking psychological help? Because that's enough evidence right there. I think if he really loves her, he will forgive her and walk with her every step of the way. They've been together for 2 years so there has to be some substance in the relationship.

    Also, you should try to be a bit more optimistic about it as well. If she's sad and you're sad, then it's not going to make her feel any better.

    I wish your friend a speedy recovery and best of luck.
     
  8. shoot if i was the boyfriend... i'd stay away from the bitch before she kills me... -dead.

    No but it's kinda hard to forgive her if she doesn't even know why she cheated? maybe she was vulnerable at the time.. maybe not... but it's just damn complicated...
     
  9. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    her bf did walk w/ her thru every step until she cheated on him.......i guess somethings are just unacceptable even tho she didn't understand why she did it...i agree it is very complicated......maybe it is better for them to break up..or else both of them would be sad all the time knowing what had happened...
     
  10. babesteroxox33

    babesteroxox33 Active Member

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    haha i eat ice cream :] it always cheers me up
     
  11. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    hheheeee...yeah me too! i use to have like 2 mcflurries a day...kekeke...well to cheer meself up...doesn't work anymore tho...maybe had too much of it :)
     
  12. if anything i think too much ice cream just makes it worst cuz then you get really bad brain freeze... -bash
     
  13. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    Not to mention extra calories & fat >.<

    Why not exercise instead? Exercise makes you happy... like riding your bike.
     
  14. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    exercise does not make you happy
     
  15. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    excercise is good too...but first gotta get the person out of depressed state so they can go excercise!!!

    no ice-cream is always good...yummy...
    i'm one of those luckier ppl...dun get chubby easily hehe..:)
     

  16. some people find exercising can relief stress... so it kinda makes them happy -clapclap
     
  17. titi

    titi Well-Known Member

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    mmmmmmmmmm....yummy yummy yummy....me want ice-cream!!
     
  18. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    basketball makes me happy, I dont consider it excercise
     
  19. rNb99

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    i would probably sleep or listen to music...