He's def interested. Just put yourself in his shoes, if you ask a guy "if he has a boyfriend?" what does that usually mean to you? Obviously it means that you're interested (scenerio).
you're right..it shouldn't matter since im in a relationship but the thing is i have been with my bf for 4 years and this is the first time where i've met someone and had this strange feeling. At first, 4 months ago, i thought it was just this attraction and it'll probably go away....cuz u know sometimes your hormones run up and down but this time around...i feel that its a special feeling, like a sense of familiarity, as if i knew this guy before..i think we have this chemistry that i can't describe.... but honestly i don't mind being friends..but if his intentions are something different...then of course, i do not want to get involve. before all this....i thought my relationship with my bf will always remain the same (because there were some things i wish he cared more about) and now he's a changed man. ever since my bf started working again (was umemployed for a while), his whole attitude and mind set has changed to what ive been waiting for a loong time..a more mature him. so in a way, i should love my bf even more...but ever since i saw this guy at the show..i feel like i emotionally cheated on my bf everytime i see this guy (which was only twice at the show) & i feel guilty becuz i actually cared if the guy was interested in me...and that's the bad part. i don't know what's going on my mind..but i do need to figure it out, any advices??
The guy likes you and want to know more about you. If you told you don't have a boyfriend he probably would take a step further.
like "yeah, i happen to have 200 bucks in my pocket, let go for a one night stand"? and if you are lucky you will wake up with something that you will remember for the rest of your life (aid or herpes). joking
Okie...first, who doesn't like an attractive wo/man to flirt at him/her? It's common for individuals to feel "special" by another individual. Now, that's part of the "game". Hopefully, in your case, the guy at the other booth isn't playing "the game" or being "fresh" on you. IMO, I think he's trying to "to get you" in a sense of "dump your bf and come with me since I'm better". Or worst case, 1 night stand. But you know who's better right? If you think back way back when you met that bf of yours now who somehow used his magics and tricks on you, and then out of the blue you said "yes!" or your "heart skipped a beat", you felt deeply in love with him and anyway, the rest is history and become good memories, somehow. As someone stated that you haven't feel that "special feeling" it's coz you have felt it way long time ago and you know with whom...... right? Right. And that "special feeling" has made you who you are now and with whom....(ur bf). So, looking at the whole picture is you really dont' need to figure it out. You just exprerienced something good for you, and IMO, you should share it with your bf. (so you wouldn't feel emotionally cheated on him, it's never too late) I think he SHOULD be very happy and proud to have such a great gf (4 years and still going) while another guy has his eyes on you. (probably he winked on you coz he was telling you that there's dirt on his eye? lol j/k) For some couple, they go to the "next level". Marriage and kids, you know? While for other couples, the "current level" still has its own good things. If somehow you want to start all over again with this winking guy then you ought to think first. Will you be willing to sacrifice 4+ years of good/bad memories you had with your bf and start all over again? Remember...and remember again.... communication is THE KEY to a healthy relationship. Tell your bf about your needs and wants. There's no need for him to guess. And remember....remember... you and your bf are adutls so a relationship is meant to be together with each other and supportive throught out the rest your life and....remember...etc, etc, etc. Enough. Unless your bf has physically abuse you or any of that sort disturbing behavior, then ignore this reply and next time you see that guy across the booth again, give him a blow to his winking eye.
1) Shame on any one that thinks about cheating and violating their current relationship. That's the downfall of society and I hope people like that have their hearts ripped out ! People that have short term relationships will end up with more sorrow down the road, and will finish life off lonely and miserable. 2) Guys are perverts and you will very rarely find someone that can accompany his sexual desire w/ character. Simply put, a guy will always be perverted ! It's a matter of his other character, how far he would go. You should have your own 'standards'. Test them out. IF 2 month, or 1 year, or 3 years, or @ marriage is your benchmark, stick to it ! Be real with yourself. If all you need is 3 months of dating before advancing, then live with your choice ! Bottom line, a guy that aggressively flirts and talks, definitely means he has an interest in you. ** You seem exactly like what my 'friend'=ex= did. She got all desperate and did all this 'meet ups' w/ guys and internet shit. She claims she didn't cheat, but the notion was terribly disturbing and a total disrespect. It had nothing to do w/ actual cheating, but putting herself in that position as you have, just means your opening yourself for more risk and chance for a mistake. Your guilt is taunting you. Eventually you'll have to think. But a selfish dumb person would have cheated, felt guilty and regret for the rest of your life ! Value those in front of you.
You seem to be nice so I'll sugar coat it a bit. He want's to give you his hot dog and pee in your butt.
ecko, they told me u were in the states, and a girl thats pretty that was into games? i couldn't believe it
