^^^ awe...dunt be in doubt...some girls can be materialistic..but at the same time there are girls out ther whos looking for something more than a LV bag or Gucci shoes...
haha you always read them and if you ever watch asian dramas, they are usually true. In real life I'm not sure if it always happens, but if they do it's cute haha
Woman are evil ! IF they aren't into you, then you can forget about it. It's just like nature, when the male species courts the female. Love has nothing to do w/ it. Woman who act hard, and boyish, or think they are too good for anyone are actually the most lonliest ever. They will keep playing hard ball cuz it gives them attention- and girls need that attention. Appparently being nice, a gentlemen, and being there for a girl is not enough. Girl use the word 'love' and abide by 'love'. Of course you have to match that w/ 'interest', otherwise, any best efforts will go to waste.
N how are women different from men? Cuz its the same if I would state that: When a guy doesnt like a girl for some reason (mostly cuz shes physically unattractive) he'd simply ignore her or just use her for whatever she is good for n when he is done hes gonna ditch her... For guys its: if a girl gives in too easily... he didnt really enjoy the chase therefore he wont appreciate the girl as much as when he had to chase her n there was some excitement in it.... so theres always a game here... stop hating on women dude... u sound like a teenager when u say "Women are evil" So u got ditched (AGES AGO).... happens to the best of us there are a few things u could do: 1) turn gay 2) go c a therapist n have a chat abt it 3) Quit being all drama abt it n move on
LOL You sound like the world wronged you from Day 1. Unless that's just your personality online, a hard assed person. But woman are just like that, some act so tough online, talk as if they have testosterone. For a 'woman', you sure have no emotional side to ya. I wouldn't say I got ditched. If I got ditched in that sense, where I was 'used', then I would not pursue or have drama. Drama exists only because one cares. So smoothing the rough edges out is wrong? Not really. What's wrong is if you were 'used', (especially on some unreversable level) and still lingered for the other; now 'that's wrong ! I.E. why would 1 linger if the significant 'cheated' on you? If you were serious, you'd know that any genuine relationship carries with it a mutual pain. If you felt no pain, your relationship was proally not that deep. Why must you think a guy has to chase a girl or vice versa? Girls do expect that though, it's in the natural laws. I don't chase girls, but I do things on a mutual level to begin with. These aren't the movies. I agree that seeking one's selfish interest besets everythingn else, but it doesn't mean it's the best case. Perhaps in your experiences, you've created some self biases, and so have I. Nothing wrong. Just chill..
Espresso, U n I both know we had a convo abt ur long lost love before... n KT was there too... so u know why im responding like this...anyway.... Funny when U say: I SOUND like the world wronged me? UR the one who sounds as if all women took a piece of ur nuts...n u know what? that would explain 1) why u think all women are evil, 2) ur whining (which sounds like a teenage girl) Trust me, Im pretty much like this in rl life... what else u expect? cyberhugs n flowers to come off as feminine? I dont feel the need to prove/show u a feminine side... but hey how is whatever I mentioned earlier make me sound as if I have testerone? Lol... trust me... It's cuz I passed ur stage "I hate all boys cuz their mean" when I was in high school... If one of ur male friends which uve known for a long time would betray u, would u say " I hate men, their evil"? Ok so it would probably be typical for u to say or think "but u havent loved deeply etc.... but ok.... sure w/e floats ur boat I am not bitter, actually far from it... Its just that im aware of the fact that in everything u wanna achieve theres always a risk... same goes for relationships...sometimes things dont go the way u want them to... accept that n u probably wont think the way u think now... So, next time a girl breaks up with u, u mite think c something positive in it n learn from it??? Yes it hurts n it stings, u miss ur significant other... n ur gonna cry, repeat crying many times n call ur friends until theyve heard ur stories a 100000 times... but after that u have no choice but to toughen up n move on... n of course... it takes time but u told me ur ex broke up with u like what? 8 years ago or something (dun rly remember)? Now, I can tell u this story making it sound like a child's bedtime story but ur an adult so why give it to u like u r one? Im sure everyone else has already told u all the nice stuff? N yea, its ok u can think im a bitch, ur not the first n u prob wont be the last my apologies for writing so much
I don't call girls that, nor do I think that. I'm not expecting all this XOXO stuff either. Actually there comes a time and place, but we all know behind the keyboards, we are humans. I mean if you say that's how you are, that's how you are. It's no biggie and it's respectable. Putting an online front might last, but we all know it's just the internet. In the real world, it won't work. I might've threw a tad of sarcasm which probably repainted me as a 'teenage' boy. LOL It was sacarsm, and a feeling most would have dismissed by high school. "Duh". Of course I would not think like that of 'woman'. I'm sure we all wouldn't, even if relationships w/ the opposite failed time and time again. (well maybe not. hahah) I'm probably drowning it out more than I need to. But it's not like my situation is decapating me to a point where it prevents me from carrying on with life. Thanks
All I'm trying to say is that, people can act all hard and be like that, but they will still bleed blood, they will still have feelings, and they will know how to cry when time comes. But when they act like people cannot mourn, wheep, and come off instantly like a tough ass; then there is nothing but bull sh8t fronts from behind the keyboard. Woman in general are and will be more compassionate than guys. No matter how you want to cut it, unless your a dyke or have a man's voice, a woman will have more sympathy, apathy, feeling, & intuition than guys. So seeing these 'female' come online with a short fuse kinda shocks me. LOL It's not like I'm expecting XO XO sign offs, but even amicable vibes can be appreciated? But hey, again, if that's how you wanna be, that's how it's gonna be. No problemo. But just dont' fake the funk. I only have drama because I care and it has affected me a bit, and I find out talking it out constantly to have worked the best for me. I realize there are risks to everything as well, so it's not like I'm trying to say I won't try again. I only tried to seek female members so I can understand my 'previous' better. For a guy, as long as his 'wang' is parked somewhere when he wants to, he'll be fine. LOL So let me ask you this, how come I 'salty pork hand' sometimes and she still hangs out? HAHA I don't do serious ehonda style, but a 'sly' of hands. LOL And I have brought this up constantly about me 'visibly' gazing inside her 'shirt', yet she no care.. =X jkjkjkjkjk
