WHAT GIRLS WANT in a relationship

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by emawlee28, Oct 18, 2008.

  1. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    Your list works better for me.
     
  2. MissCheekS

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    wow u needed two posts to speak ur mind up eh? hahaha... oh well... like ive said before im not a person who has no sympathy for others... I just dont feel sorry for u lol... so yea, basically.... just no sympathy for u... maybe I will feel sorry for u if ud chop off ur leg or something?
    But honestly now.. why would u want me to feel sorry for u? does it make u feel better when ppl pity u?
    i do not feel the need to show u any soft side in this case... I never said I dont have one... n ive given that type of advice before but hey, u havent been ard (actively) for too long so u dun even know what my posts are like... I always spk my mind up... I just give my HONEST opinion (yes in real life too)
    N sure u can call me a dyke for that if thats how u feel abt me but its not gonna change my tone or thoughts... n u probably dun wanna know that i think ur being a pussy abt this situation either right :D

    n abt the perverted part, u mite think its cool n all grabbing her (u basically like to brag abt it) etc...but that says something abt both of u....its a known fact that ppl have hormones... at the end of the day what it means is that u still call her ur "PREVIOUS" as oppose to ur "GIRLFRIEND"
     
  3. Flames

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    Then its time to click on the thanks button! (Y)
     
  4. palal

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    Bravo

    well said...that's what love is for!!
     
  5. Espresso

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    I'm not asking for sympathy at all. I can't control how someone sees me, nor can anyone else control any body. If that's the impression, then let it be - vice versa. One things for sure, I just have a terrible time reading and comprehending your chopped up fragments. -bigsmiles There's no argument there. ;) -what? Of course I haven't been around too long, jeez. I don't spend my whole amounts of time here like most, so it's no big deal. Like wise, a 3rd party won't realize the whole situation as well. So if your suggestion is to just 'forget about it', then yeah. I don't expect someone to fully have read or understand the situation. If they did, then I'd appreciate it, but if they didn't, then oh well. It's not that big of a deal eh.

    I just don't fake the funk. I don't have to sit behind the keyboard and act sad, nor make outrageous claims, nor be macho. It won't matter though. At the end of the day, we go about our lives. I'm sure you're aware of that. But hey, if that's how you are behind the keyboard and in person, that's how you are. I am not calling you a dyke, rather I am just portraying an abstract example.

    I'm not challenging anything though, and it's not like it matters either. hehe.. :kekekegay:

    But I respect your suggestion about moving on. I am still friends with her, and we're proally gonna do something this weekend. I don't sulk around and cry all day, this was 3 years ago !! I've approached her, and I've resolved things a bit - which is why I feel better? haha

    Like I said, if she had done something like 'cheat' on me, or screw me over, I see 'no reason' why to drag, not even a friendship. A cold cut kill would've removed it. But this 'drama' is nothing like that. Yes, our 'together' status is over, but it hasn't come between our friendship.

    Oh well. Thanks + Have a good one. I will proally post some wierd pictures.
     
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  6. Espresso

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    Btw, Miss C,

    What's the answer to these questions?

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    So let me ask you this, how come I 'salty pork hand' sometimes and she still hangs out? HAHA I don't do serious ehonda style, but a 'sly' of hands. LOL And I have brought this up constantly about me 'visibly' gazing inside her 'shirt', yet she no care.. =X jkjkjkjkjk

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    Here's the thing too. When we hang w/ my friends or whatever (rarely), I tell her to watch what she wears, and to wear things less revealing. She 'listens'. Beyond that, I dunno how she dresses or whatever, but I make sure she's aware there are perverts.
     
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  7. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    i appreciate your effort, because it made me laugh hahaha. -clapclap
     
  8. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    here's some thing for you to remember.

    thoughts create feelings, not the other way around. once you conqured that, you the chance

    of you feeling sad is very very less likely. I got a psychology reference for what i've said as well. So besure its not just woffle lol.
     
  9. Espresso

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    I have no idea what your trying to convey. LOL It seems like this will turn into a dead horse beating ! HAHAHA
     
  10. MissCheekS

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    ^Wow... I cannot believe that ur 26?!? Ur brain is on the same level as a 15 year old! I admire that in a way u know

    I never mentioned ONCE "forget abt it"... I told u to move on... not to delete all the memories of u n ur ex... there is a difference... I told u to learn from ur past insteade being all drama queen abt it... it really makes u come off like some kinda desperate drama queen... gosh... ur like that chris crocker dude...

    I highly doubt u have read my previous post toroughly where i clearly explained each n every bit to u... u keep repeating urself... n one of the things that confirm what i think is the part where u ask me what my point of view is abt u being all pervy on ur ex!

    *SIGH*
     
  11. Espresso

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    HAHA. I am having a terrible time comprehending what your really writing. Maybe you were confused by the whole ordeal, but like I said, it doesn't matter. Drama isn't occurring, and like I said, we're gonna do something this weekend. How is that 'drama'? -bigsmiles Both parties are cool with it. Not sure why you wanna dwell on some past tense idea. LOL

    Your input is greatly appreciated, but if you haven't already noticed, we've shifted to another, or 'some' other topics of discussion. LOL

    I'm still curious on the perv part. LOL
    So why you gotta bring up other stuff. Can't you just address the perv part?
    Call me dumb, stupid, illiterate, or whatever, but I am just trying to seek a female's POV or idea about this?

    So can you just talk about it and not like redig? Thanks =)
     
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  12. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    just some wisdom for you -rockon LOL
     
  13. Flames

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    The chatbox archives
     
  14. MissCheekS

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    i already replied to this idiotic matter :D u just gonna have to reread my previous post
     
  15. Espresso

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    =)

    n abt the perverted part, u mite think its cool n all grabbing her (u basically like to brag abt it) etc...but that says something abt both of u....its a known fact that ppl have hormones... at the end of the day what it means is that u still call her ur "PREVIOUS" as oppose to ur "GIRLFRIEND"


    So exactly, 'what' does it say about her? I have re-read but this is the closest thing I've found. You don't really expand on this. Does this mean she's okay with it? Probably not. She probably understand guys are all perverts!!

    All guys are like that. haha...
     
  16. ShinZu

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    need to take note...
     
  17. xdly

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    agree this topic... BUT... if a guy does this all... I'm sure he is gay! xD TOO BAD! :p
     
  18. WeakNiZ

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    About the materialistic part
    It's mostly the really pretty girls that aims for the rich guys.
    The not so pretty one, relationships last longer, cause the girl knows not to take risks.
     
  19. xdly

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    I think it's not about the risks... But they just think they're pretty... and other guys are giving them more attention (than their own bf)... Should be that... ATTENTION is the key.
     
  20. iiimj4everiii

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    T.T where's my love </3