What is the right gift for a first date

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by rax_7, Jun 6, 2010.

  1. Tony

    Tony Well-Known Member

    Don't go beyond flowers.

    Oh,... and pics!!!
     
  2. HAhaha.. -lol

    just get her some flowers.. no need to get anything big. It'll be a pain in ass to carry around.
     
  3. Tiger King

    Tiger King Well-Known Member

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    I agree with this, the same applies with the so-called "anniversaries" which people distort the meaning to. People celebrate monthly anniversaries, I thought anniversaries are yearly... I am guilty of this. Don't do the Korean 100 day thing, don't do the monthlys. do the REAL annis because that's a one off thing.

    Unless its her birthday, don't spoil her at all with gifts. Give her a good time and that's more than enough for her to guarrentee a second date.

    Oh BTW: Its probably too late... remember to be yourself, I'm just saying this because the fact that you asked that you thought you'd need to give a gift on a first date shows me that you lack any experience. Be yourself, don't be afriad to have fun, be respectful, but at the end of the day, its all about having fun, if you are having fun, she should be too, that way you can naturally flirt without looking like you got some shit stuck up your ass.
     
  4. Afa

    Afa Well-Known Member

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    i like that idea... hhmmm.. any other small things XD
     
  5. rax_7

    rax_7 Well-Known Member

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    thanks yall
     
  6. spudsz

    spudsz Active Member

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    flowers is the right thing to do. No need for anything beyond that for your fist date.
     
  7. Flames

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    A vibrator
     
  8. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    an r/c one? =P
     
  9. lovetvb

    lovetvb Well-Known Member

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    She may rejected..b/c she may already had one
     
  10. dmx9553

    dmx9553 Member

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    present?
    get off the computer and go out more often.
     
  11. nycill

    nycill Member

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    no gifts buddy just tell her shes fun to be with if she really is. pay attention and click click click. gifts are for noobs..
     
  12. peichuen17

    peichuen17 Member

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    Paying for meal and drinks is the safest bet. And more importantly, show your sense of humour on that day and be yourself.
     
  13. jack4st

    jack4st Member

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    definitely don't get her a present. are you nuts? even getting flowers can come off too desperate. worry more about where to take her and what to talk about
     
  14. niclow

    niclow New Member

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    Just buy her a nice dinner will do... gift and present only after when u guys r together... but then, dont spoil her with all the gifts. Or she'll expect more after some time. :)
     
  15. balitaevents

    balitaevents Active Member

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    Don't try too hard. Just be yourself. You don't need to ger a present. A single rose would be appropriate if you really want to give her something. Don't worry though, girls don't expect gifts on the first date. Just respect her, treat her well and pay for dinner if you take her out to dinner. Treating her well and being a gentleman is the best present a girl can receive :)
     
  16. davidjai

    davidjai New Member

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    go try a scary movie ticket to the movies lol..
     
  17. nllieu

    nllieu Member

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    I still think flowers are a MUST and it is not boring. I cannot think of any woman who don't like flowers.
     
  18. Bulla

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    why you buying a gift on the first date? the gift is the date.