What is your age limit gap for someone you date?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by champ91, Mar 27, 2008.

  1. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    there is no age limit, but obviously if ur like too young or too old, then i wouldn't find them usually attractive.
     
  2. cloudless

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    in my opinion, younger - 1 year...older - 6-8 years tops?

    cause i dink that if you like/love him/her then age doesn't matter. but to some they care. personally i dink fate will help you find ur other half...^_^
     
  3. inahss

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    no younger guys for me.

    i prefer guys 3+ years older, but no more than 6-7 years of difference.

    however, as smallrinilady said:
    -- so what i believe now may no longer be the same as i age. but i dont think i'll ever date a younger guy though. =x

    my boyfriend is 6 years older .. and i've never been happier.
     
  4. AzN_Boi~

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    No more than 5 years older than me and 2-3 years younger than me. I think age don't matter and is all about personality matter right?
     
  5. uryu

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    i have had crush on girls younger then me.. but cuz im 19, things can get pedo-ish, so thats a no no haha, (no its not THAT young, but anything under 18 will be pedo yes? jail-bait sux) anyways... the age limit is definitely 3-5 at most, guy imo has to be older, unless it's a fling, then it doesn't matter.. but guys imo just needs to be older... iguess if the girl is older, it can be 1-2 years at most..
     
  6. oldymoldy

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    As you get older the age gap doesn't matter because your points in life are more similar ie: working + family. But when you are younger, even a year makes a difference ie: one is in HS and one is in college, or one can goto bars and clubs legally and the other can't. And theres always maturity, just because someone is older or younger doesn't mean their maturity level is a representative of their age. 30 year old with a mind of a 10 year old :p
     
  7. jtasgv6uy

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    older guys and younger girls is consider alrite, but older women and young men is considered robbing da cradle.
     
  8. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    is it rele though cos it does depend on age also, cos if a guy was like in his late twenties and was going out with a girl who was sixteen, he could get done for being a pedo.
     
  9. skid

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    is it wierd for a guy to go out with a girl that is 3 years or more older than him?
     
  10. wslow

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    no i think its okay..and really depends on the couple its self..if they are happy and they get along well then it shouldnt be a problem..dont worry about what other people say..

    i have a colleague who is 30 and the gf is 33...they have been going strong for a long time and planning to get married in a year's time. :D
     
  11. ma123456

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    why accept whats in front of u, when u know u can do better :p, older then me 6yrs max for me, dunno mature girl r more fun mentally...or probably 3 year younger , are just more wild...its a win/win situation

    but then agian its all about what level you on.....
     
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  12. toshina

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    I used to tell myself I wouldn't date anyone more than 4 years older than me. That was high school. Now that I am older, the age gap thing doesn't really matter all that much to me anymore. It's about whether the two people are attracted to one another and willing it start a relationship despite all. My boyfriend is 7 and 1/2 years older than me. I'm currently 22 and he's 30.
     
  13. heidyli

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    i like my s.o to be atleast 2 yrs older...max 5 yrs.
     
  14. wal

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    i'm a guy and personally i find 5 years younger than me to be fine, but also the limit.

    my gf is nearly 4 years younger than me and we think it's fine :)
     
  15. kiwi3y

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    i'm a girl and my bf is 6 years older than me. i think the relationship works out great because most guys i know at my age are very immature. we've been together for 2 years now and everything is perfect.
     
  16. Suiko

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    the largest gap that i've been in a relationship in was 3 years younger. I'm willing to date -5 to +1

    haha but never know fate can be werid,
     
  17. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    i think there was a thread like this before... but yeah i think i would say 1-3 years but i think as people grow older the gap becomes a lot bigger but tahts just my opinion
     
  18. cottoncandybabe

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    ummm at this moment in time i'd say

    1 year younger as long as he is mature for his age

    or up to 3 years older (21) =]

    any older than that would be kinda weird lol
     
  19. Hustler

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    In My view the other person you going for date is different from your age. Like if you want to make any relationship in future . For male your girl is 3-5 years smaller then you. For girl Its same. The opposite male is 3-6 year bigger then you. Because I think that age different is good for importance between male and female.
     
  20. Angel12

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    i would said no older than me by 3 years, before i would not date any younger guys. now i think is ok as long the guy is not younger than me by a year.