What remains after the passion's gone?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Jamien, May 4, 2007.

  1. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for the offer Jamien. I may take you up on it.

    Yes, do try lunch. And the food actually doesn't have to be fancy or take a long time to make. Many times my wife would buy me stuff from the street stalls and give that to me for lunch.

    It's the fact that I'm so busy to get lunch for myself, and that she came to see me and feed me that made me happy. It doesn't necessarily have to be anything you make by hand or that takes a long time.

    Let us know how it works out.
     
  2. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    So when's ur b'day and ur addy?
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Massages ARE nice aren't they? I LOVE massages, I prefer strong massage to soft massage.
    Haha, i dunno, nvr tried that, but the thought of it sounded weird to me.
    What if u feel like havin a foursome? -shock -lol
     
  4. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Tee hee, thanks babyrain. That's very sweet. But I don't think my wife will like it if I receive flowers on my bday that she didn't send hehe. *wink*
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Gawd ur so innocent. Cld always haf the flowers delivered to ur office...
    and stay there.
    Hmm not givin u any ideas am I? -devil
     
  6. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    "Oh behave, babyrain!" hehe You're naughty aren't you. lol.

    I guess if the masseuse are attractive and my wife is up for it, I wouldn't mind. However I don't think that will ever happen, at least not in this lifetime lol.

    Speaking of massages, every masseuse assumes that because I'm a guy that I want a lot of pressure. They always end up squeezing me so hard that it hurts. I had bruises afterwards one time. And regardless of me asking them to lighten up, they gradually go back to strong hands after a few minutes lol...

    My favorites are stone massage, traditional thai massage (feels like I'm stretching before exercising), and swedish oil massage.....
     
  7. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Hehe, unfortunately I don't use an office for my profession. And as attractive and cute as you are, I'm a one woman man hehe =) But I am flattered at the offer lolz
     
  8. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Aww like they say, every good man is taken -cry2
     
  9. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    I like to give my husband massages myself, it doesn't have to be profecssional and necessarily in bed, it could be anywhere in the house (makes it more exciting) then fool around and have some fun! Afterwards, cook him a simple meal and clean up together, it's always fun! Showering together is another thing we enjoy doing, clean each other up, rub against him, pleasure him, but make him wait it arouses men a lot.

    and Babyrain, you rock! =D
    and ribsandbbqbeef, thanks for the opinions/advices from a guys point of view!
     
  10. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    You got it, STTTRRIIKKEEE!!!

    I doubt it, there's good guys hiding away somewhere.
    There's also good guys getting mistreated by bad girls I'm sure they will finish soon. LOL
     
  11. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    I beg to differ. Nice guys are sooo hard to come by. More the reason we want to keep one if he comes along. That's the reason why we say all good guys are taken. But no offense lar. ^^ There still are great guys out there.
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Lol IMO it's hard to come by a good guy and it's even harder to come by one with looks & character...
     
  13. Xx_Flora_xX

    Xx_Flora_xX Well-Known Member

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    wats left its only the draggin on btw two persons....end it earlier the better.
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I do, don't I? -whistle
    Lol... kiddin! Thanx.
     
  15. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    in a good relationship the passion doesnt go away...... :)
     
  16. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Hmmm... But your love can't remain the same after years. It's gotta evolve right? Love simply doesn't stay the same.
     
  17. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    throughout the years love may fade, but the bond is still there nonetheless. since it's been so many years already, the trust is there, the foundation is pretty much solid. and if there are children, the responsibility will bring the husband back home.. at least most men would.
     
  18. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    Yah I guess and good girls are also hard to come by.


    hmm after passion, I think the missing piece to the puzzle is companionship. If its not passion that holds people together then it would be companionship.

    When people get old, all physical attraction goes out the window! so I guess companionship would carry people through the rest of the way.
    I guess that when personality is important.
     
  19. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Companionship? I cld have my dog as company... :p Lol no offence... Just feelin naughty that the site's back up woot..!

    I'd say revive the passion baby! Relight my fire!! Passion's important.. ur not talkin abt an old couple here we are talkin abt Jamien :p
    Love's the most important and if you have that, u can always find ways to revive the passion.
     
  20. angelkiller

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    Mayb but guess i'm kinda lucky to have found one then :p. But i dont particuarly think good guys and girls are hard to come by, depends what that certain person thinks is a good guy/girl