What should you do when you're not sexually satisfied in a relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by negiqboyz, Feb 17, 2009.

  1. teapot

    teapot New Member

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    watch some porn movies and see how they do it and try new things on her.....best sex for me usually happens during trips when your not at home in the same bed.......so maybe u need a a weekend trip and spend some alone time
     
  2. ohiyoo

    ohiyoo Member

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    Be open and tell him what you like. Maybe you can trying different ways to spice up your sex life.
     
  3. 0r!3n4

    0r!3n4 Member

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    3 words: D.I.Y.
     
  4. yun521

    yun521 Guest

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    i would talk to my partner about it
     
  5. pobox557

    pobox557 Well-Known Member

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    there is more to a relastionship than just sex. Its just a added bonus and closeness
     
  6. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    check out the hot asian chicks thread ^^
     
  7. bigball

    bigball Active Member

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    other than sex it was many other thing that concern about, like care of each other daily matter, the filling of partner.
    if that is not the case , then i suggest use some toys, to satisfy partner.
     
  8. cheky

    cheky Member

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    just tell your partner your not satisfied and you want them to do blah blah to you, thats what the point in being in a relationship is to open up 2 each other..
     
  9. dfs3000my

    dfs3000my Member

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    you need to talk it out and then probably you may find the problem
     
  10. Soemtimes I question the same thing. Would it be wrong to sexually satisfy yourself? It would be considered cheating, rite? Well I think you should hav a talk with your partner...=/ theres no real easy way thru this
     
  11. BennyJai

    BennyJai Member

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    I personally think sex is very important, if your not satisfy with your sex life, it will just bring your relationship down due to the fact that will you be frustrated a lot. Should always try new things to spice it up, im the type to get bored easily and i always try spicing it up whether its using toys or costumes.
     
  12. sheahann

    sheahann Member

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    communication is the main point ..
    tell her how u fell
     
  13. ribbit80l

    ribbit80l Member

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    talk to ur partner
     
  14. DK - Drama King

    DK - Drama King Active Member

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    If she's not doing all those "naughty" things that you expect from a "pro", I mean "prostitute", then she's a good girl. No guy is so "chic magnet" that she will do what the pro does for a living. She simply won't! It's a pipe dream! Get over it. That's what the internet is for. She is to keep you company like listening to you. So, don't just listen to you "thing".
     
  15. gimbit

    gimbit Member

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    kudos to that man. bingo.
     
  16. peichuen17

    peichuen17 Member

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    Though open communication is always the best policy, but how about if the man not able to satisfy the lady? Wouldn't they feel intimidated if the lady initiated the talk?? As it is seems common among people that man wanting sex more than woman. But should the lady do if it is the other way round?
     
  17. hem

    hem Well-Known Member

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    talk to your partner... dont start look around before you've talked first. and the topic ..is a bit strange. are u in that position or are u curious of what other thinks?