What to say to a girl u have nothing in common with

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aznchickenchowmein, Nov 20, 2006.

  1. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    OMG!!! -shock -noclue Just try it!!! Be a man and show her how it is, the birds and bees!!!

    -bigsmile
     
  2. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Depends on how you know her (as in, what occassion did you meet her?)
    You can probably ask her about films she saw, restaurants she's been (but you better be knowledgable in it to ask), things she does for a living (if she's working), major she study (if she's a student)
    If you are a risk-taker, invite her to a Classical concert (preferably NOT Bach or Mozart or Beethoven or Chopin, something "less" mainstream) if you are into music, contemporary dance if you are into dance.
    Surprise her with your random snippets of knowledge, just make sure you either 1. play to her strength (case: Did you see the Prestige? I think I like Memento and the Following more, Nolan's recent work has been somewhat strange; AND hope she knows what you are talking about and continues the conversation) or 2. impress her with little known facts (You know Almodovar has a secret crush on Penelope Cruz? -- Not that it's a secret anymore, specially after Volver, the full-blown love declaration)
    Feel free to substitute topic (my forte is film) with your own forte.
     
  3. eason41

    eason41 Well-Known Member

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    unless you are looking for a one night stand, or esle it is not gonna work in the long

    run. Or you can juz study her daily habits(but thats stalker-ish)
     
  4. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    yeah pretending to be interested in what she likes is not going to work out for you in the long run. Plus if you don't know her well, how do you know she has nothing in common with you if you haven't talked to her much, well assuming you haven't approached her yet. Anyways my advice would be to get to know her first. if you want to stand out more than the average joe...hmm...maybe should try to get your friends to like boast and brag about you in front of her haha ok bad advice. sorry no help there lol