i used to think it's love when i was lil.... but now that i don't believe in it anymore i pick great wealth.... might as well b more practical....
Hmm I dont think perfect happiness exists now, but if it did i believe Love over all, health second, and wealth last... i could honestly do without money if I had a "perfect" love (being with that special girl =] ...), and health hmm well have to live you kno =P.
To me it would be having perfect health and being with the person I love and have the person love me back no matter what. ^^
I have no idea what the perfect happiness is to me...there´s so many things that can make me happy, even small thingss but there are more things that can make me sad *Thinking* It must be health
At this moment, perfect happiness to me would be a picture of hiake... ......naked. /sing Gonna find my baby, gonna hold her tight. Gonna grab some afternoon delight. My motto's always been; when it's right, it's right. Why wait until the middle of a cold dark night. When everything's a little clearer in the light of day. And you know the night is always gonna be there anyway. Thinkin' of you's workin' up my appetite. Looking forward to a little afternoon delight. Rubbin' sticks and stones together makes the sparks ingite. And the thought of rubbin' you is getting so exciting. Started out this morning feeling so polite. I always though a fish could not be caught who wouldn't bite. But you've got some bait a waitin' and I think I might try nibbling. A little afternoon delight.
there is no absolute one.... I mean if you say health, wealth,love... I mean if you pick health then how bout the people who lives as a bum they amazingly have very good health normal people die earlier then them.... having wealth but then you get cancer.......having love but not enough money to even put food on the table to feed her/him striving for just 3 meals a day... making her suffer.. so i would say a little bit of everything will be true happiness.... have money but not too much just so you can own most of the necessity of life, health ... everyone gets sick someday so getting a cold or fever here or there not a big deal, love ... it truly comes and goes..
Wow, I am strangely flattered You are right, of course. But to me, all basis of perfect happiness stem from the fact that I am healthy -- when I am not healthy, few things matters. I CAN be happy (at least I try to be) even without great wealth or love of my life -- I am hopeful, of course, that I will acquire all three, but if I have to choose one before the others, health would be my first choice -- I am a very shallow person, just can't bring myself to be happy if I know I am going to die a slow and painful death in foreseeable future. ^^b
well of course as I have said its not saying that you are going to die horribly but then what is considered as good health to you i mean living forever or do you think just not having any sickness is healthy.. you knwo what i mean?
Yeah, I guess. But living forever is like a myth ^^b you know, I would say "good health" is like "not having to see a doctor for a VERY VERY long time" But I am not interested in living forever, it would get SO boring and sad to see your loved ones go before you.
Does that mean you are going to satisfy my request and make me happy??!?!?!? There's no point arguing over what it means to truly be happy because we all look for different things in life. I think the thread title should have been "what makes you most happy" rather than "what's your idea of perfect happiness" because there's no such thing. Health does not gaurantee happiness, nor does love or wealth. A little bit of each doesn't gaurantee it either. Thus, this thread is useless and your point is mooooot. Why focus on an idea that does not exist/cannot be attained? "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life". There are many unhappy people who have everything they should need to be happy. Even if you were to live a carefree life with no worries, you will eventually forget what happiness feels like because you have nothing sad to compare it to. Everything has a positive and a negative outcome like yin and yang. Everything has its contradiction and the balance consists that one creates the other. So don't expect for this world to have happiness without sadness, or sadness without happiness. One cannot exist without the other. WHO AGREEEEES?
Is that supposed to be a question? Probably not. Plus, I am going to evilly -devil make everyone miserable and unhappy when possible *walk away* (too bad I can't whistle, it would add to the dramatic effect) I was waiting for someone to say that -- just waiting for the disillusion -- one would not treasure health (which may or may not lead to happiness) until sickness hits; same goes with love and wealth. On the other hand, all too often people reminencent the past and say "I was so happy then" and not realizing that back "then" they were not happy. Sometimes it's sad to consider that it's only the mind distilling memory into the best intoxicant. I guess in the end, people who are gratituous and live for today are the ones who can be happy about the moment right now.
