Who should i choose

^ Pfft all faith in PA was gone when Phil from Melbun was mentioned as her option LOL xD

 

then deres really two options make the guy understand she is worth it or move on... lots of other opportunities jus have to look.... (i knoe it sounds easier than it really is.. lol)

 

choose the person YOU like and not the other one just because they like you. also keeping option b as a "backup" seems kind of harsh unless you do have some feelings for him as well

 

I don't think just choosing those guys would make you happy. You should find someone that you really like and not settle for anything less.

 

if you must i'd choose option b by the way.

 

It sounds like you've already know what choice you want to make despite what other people tells you. You want option A, because he has stable job and have somewhat of a future that maybe you can depend on. And you chose A over B, because B guy smokes and his future is still uncertain.

But since option A has already said that he likes you, but don't want a relationship with you and option B said that he wants to be with you means that you only have one choice to begin with. But to be honest, if you really cherist yourself like you say you do, you should just wait. It seems to me that you are troubled not because you like them both a lot, but because of the FACT that you know they are interested in you and don't want to let them slip away. No point in rushing into a relationship unless you are ready to get burn.

Note: Guy B may treat you like a princess now, but all that may change when he's with you. We guys will go all out trying to get with someone, but once we have that person, let's just say that our 24/7 service is not valid anymore (at less for most guys). And Guy A may not want to get with you not just because of the fact that he just got out of a long relationship, but maybe it is because you are too young for him or maybe that he is keeping his options open just as you are doing with guy B.

Either way, do what you think is best, because you will be the one having to live with that choice.

 

I prefer option B better. A person that listens to you is better than a person that doesnt listen to you.

 

if your not sure flip a coin, and if not happy with result you have your answer

 

Yeah, your are in a tough situation in which it is hard for you to decide which one to to date. Well, the only thing you should do is to trust yourself and trust your feelings. Choose the one whom you feel more attracted.

 

option A is the way to go. partying people will lead to trouble

 

You said you like guy A more, but do you actually like guy B?

 

option A

 

I would say B since he loves you and treat you like a princess i think he would be willing to change for you.

 

try both then only u decide