maybe because some females don't see them as being just a married man and looks beyond that point. but what if it was the mistress all tempting the man. I mean if she would not be selfish and leave the man, then maybe the man can get back to his life of having a loving wife and children.
haha... but there r those who's dating a married man but she's not trying wreck his home... she's never call him on his family day... she won't call his office... she just want the $$ and the TLC...
waa...den wut da difference wif being a prostatute...if da man leaves him...den shes go off to another man...its just dat shes not going off to lots of men at da same time...
-lol nirvania pops outta nowhere. but if the woman wants money only, doesnt that make her a prostitute...im confuzzled...
Who can cast the first stone? We shouldn't judge the mistress so harshly. There are different situations and different scenarios. Mistress doesn't necessary equals evil. She may take money from the man, but she mostly wants his TLC. She may choose to be a mistress b/c marriage is not for her.
difference is porstitudes have to do it with all sorts of men for money... but a mistress doesn't... she chooses to b with this man coz she likes him... n she has to freedom to end it any time... n there's love between them... a lot of house wives don't have a job... but u wouldn't called them as married prostitudes would u??
good now you won't have to die... damn you really sound like my grandma... who thinks like 90% of successful men is going to cheat on their wifes and *bow hay* other females... omfg it's so damn annoying... it's like wtf!? and damn I was listenin' to the radio today and there are housewives who go to grocery stores n get it on wit the grocery people or the butcher... so it's like wtf... wives have the right to get attention else where but the husbands can't? and really if you're just cheating on each whats the point of stayin together...
the wife seems a lot better... both situations the guy is takin care of his ish.. although if there's really no love left... might as well jus leave his ass n the kids... why bother takin care of em...
in the short term the mistress seems to better... in the long term the wife seems better... but waiting for the husband to come home every night is tormenting... i dunno...
The young me would: Want to be the mistress. Honestly you're in love and love truly is a momentary thing. Have my fun and move on. The mature me would: Want to be the wife because her life sounds exactly what every girls wants (except for the no affection deal)
Not all mistress are devil.. There are some nice mistress. but it all depends on the greediness of the mistress.. Some mistress jus like TLC only not the $$ and of course some would like the $$ and sacrifice themself for it.. Anyone that do anything will have their price.. So don't need to confused phy phy jus which mistress pay more and most important thing guys also will pay on their deeds.. There is NO Free Lunch out there in the world.. The bad thing is: "Happy family + Mistress = Guy + kids Suffer "
i would still rather be the wife...mistress will never be happy beside it's wrong to be a mistress...
hahaha... i guess the leads to another question... waiting n wondering when or whether ur husband will come home every night is a worse feeling, or waking up in the morning alone knowing ur bf have gone back to his family in the middle of the night...??
