I already asked her out if you read the previous long posts. Her reply was I dunno , maybe which means I got rejected.
maybe it's time for you to move on and find another chick....no need to dwell on that one girl....theres plenty of girls out there.... or maybe...... nvm...it has to be the sandwich lol
Its not the sandwich lol. I did the sandwich thingy last monday but she was sitting with me on tuesday and followed me during the break. Can someone just tell me what to do and how to act towards her from now on? I have 2 classes with her tmr and I'm not sure how to act towards her now, especially since it seems she is avoiding me.
ROFLMAO. The saga of wolf.!!! I would go and sit right next to her even if she didn't chose the seat next to u/ Why? B/c she is giving u the cold shoulder and wants attention. either u give her attention she wants or its over. Buy another sandwivh and throw it at her for fun. lol This sounds likt u r in high school meng. WTF
adrian is right. go up to her, sit beside her and talk to her. ask what was wrong and why she was avoiding. not only you get your answer there, but its better than talking on msn. you can avoid ppl on msn, but if you go face to face, she has no choice but to tell you whats wrong
Well I ended up not showing up for classes today because of the weather lol. Its freezing outside. Anyways I think she went to classes. As for sitting beside her, I'm the one that comes to class before her and she is the one that has the choice of sitting beside me or not. Anyways it won't be until next week when I get the chance to see her again. I'm just kind of wondering that since she is giving me the cold shoulder and avoiding me, wouldn't it be even worst if I go and sit beside her and ask her why she is avoiding me? It might seem like I'm pressuring her and who knows she might even stop talking to me.
^Do you happen to live in the Northeast (U.S.)? (just a random thought since you said the weather was freezing) Anyway, if I was you, I would deliberately wait until class is about to start, that way, she would be already be seated. You then go in the class, take a quick glimpse to see where she is and sit next to her and say a quick "hey.." while you're putting you're putting your coat around your chair or taking your books out. If you have some time before the lecture begins, make a basic conversation with her.. like "whats going on" or "its freeeeeeeezing out!" just for the sake of talking to her. When the lecture ends, observe the pace where she is packing her bag and imitate it so you can walk with her, talk to her or maybe even buy a sandwich to toss at her face again (hahah). Don't act like anything is wrong and don't ask her "why are you ignoring meeh?! you know I worried sick about you?!" Just act normal. P.S. I just noticed that you seem to have an obcession in talking to her through MSN, why is that? Why don't you have her phone number? (this is a rhetorical question) Get her phone number and dial her up! Talking through the phone is way better than MSN..
I do have her phone number but I never called her. Anyways she got a new phone # and so did I but I never bothered to ask her after what has happened. Last time I was like you wanna talk over the phone she was like making up excuses like its gonna be long distance and stuff so I didn't bother to call her up.
just move on...if she makes excuses when you asked if she wanted to talk on the phone then most definitely she's not interested...if she dont want to talk on the phone with your ass then what makes you think she want to talk to you in person...
From what is posted I can see that your personality don;t match. U got nothin in common except for the sandwivhes and u wanna screw. LOL. Kinda of lame to stick around for a chase. see what phistyle said.
but not only that, with the level of confidence you got, ie not going to sit beside the girl, its a huge turn off for many girls. you might want to find out why shes avoiding you, and use it to fix yourself.
prob comes across as a dick, smells or somethin. ROFL. When some one is avoiding u then it means NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! Can;t u take a hint? o wait. u got her number but never call her...hmmm LOL. This probably my last post on this thread.
wtf on wednesday she msg me on msn while I was away and asked me what database did I use to research my essay. So basically asking for help. I offered her help on monday on msn when I saw her at the computer lab but she was like nah its ok, I have my research done already and blah blah blah, So first she refuses my help now she wants my help. By the time I saw the message and came back to my computer she went offline but I msg her like 3-4 offline messages and then I went to sleep. I come back on msn the next day, I didn't get any offline messages or any msg for the matter from her when she came online the next day. I feel kind of like being used. Should I have even messaged her and helped her after she was avoiding me on monday and being kind of cold or was it a good idea to help her anyways even though she is acting like this towards me because although she is treating me like this I don't think I will sink down to her level of ignoring people. Now I'm wondering if I should test her on monday and sit where I usually sit and see if she will sit with me. If she doesn't then it 100% means she is avoiding me and we cannot even be friends anymore and I can just forget about her and move on or should I just forget about her and go sit with my other friend?
look. you want this to finish quickly right? go up to her, and ask whats wrong, why she has been avoiding you. You should get your answer right there and then. You should know what to do with that answer. But the point is, and i repeat for the last time, GO UP TO HER AND ASK. dont just assume based on the clues shes giving you. that is a huge major mistake. fall for it, and its over.
fear of rejection Its ok, now when your interested in her, you must learn not to be afraid of being rejected or being embrassed. Be yourself!! Girls dont like liers.
