No offence but that comment doesnt help at all... Wolf came here asking for advice so whats wrong with people giving advice.... Wolf doesnt have to listen to the advice given, he can read it all and decided whats the next step saying "don't fucking listen to the idiots here" is really no help, if it is crap advice, wolf can figure out that for himself, in the end people are just giving personal advide, whether it works for wolf or not is only gonna be up to wolf
I didn't say it was "wrong" with people giving advice, but from wolf's then-recent comment, it was obvious that the advices he took here has fucked up his chance at the girl -- if you read it. We all know that wolf "doesnt have to listen to the advice given," which is why I posted telling wolf, as you said, to not take the advice here because it was obviously not working out for him. I realized that his situation was a very progression one and it will be difficult if he tried to keep his actions close to the advice give here. If you read down along further, it's all justified.
I dunno if this is a good thing or not but I think she is starting to crack now. Today we had a test and before class started everyone was outside waiting for the other class to leave and I was studying outside of the classroom with my notes and then she came and then she walked over to me and starts talking to me. Then when the other class left I went in and sat down somewhere and she came over and sat beside me. I acted all normal as if nothing had happened and that I did not notice she was avoiding me for the past week. So maybe my strategy is working I guess. I will continue to give her less attention and act all normal and stuff as if nothing happened and if next week she decides to go sit somewhere else on monday I will just sit where I usually sit and talk to that other girl. I think eventually she will come back and sit beside me again in that class. I also have another friend in that class too. Hmmm..... Maybe I can get both of those girls to help me make her jealous lol. Well to me, I find that the less attention you give a girl, the more she wants you to give her attention and the more attention you give them, the less they want u around.
got to say this person hit it on the head, you got to make the move even if ends a different way than you thought. just got to take that chance and step out -cool
you're on to something, but don't over do it alright? not only do you have to put in a plan for her, you got to put in a plan for you, and keep it in action, remember, try not to have regrets, step out and -rockon , good luck to you
lol yea.. bout 13 pages worth..I for one am curious to see how all this unfolds.. so who's advice where you actually taking?? or you're just out doing your own shit now?? at the end of all this.. even if you don't get the girl.. you've at least learned to work your way to not being shy... just have to work on you being useless now.. -lol damn all this time n energy.. when you could have hollered at, at least.. 5 other girls.. lol
It was my own strategy. I think I will try it my own way for now just to see how it goes. I think I've regained alittle of her trust back since I eased off her and left her alone for the past week. Today when she came and sat down on the floor beside me she kept talking as if she had alot of stuff to say to me lol. I think at this point its very fragile and one mistake can make t even worst so I need to be very cautious. So I think its best to not rush things as before and just take it one step at a time.
well theres no tellin what the girl wants.. but at least you doing things your way... so now you got no one to blame.. lol
She messaged me today on msn asking me about how I did on the test yesterday and stuff and then asked me a bunch of other stuff and judging by her responses compared to last week it seemed alot more enthueastic. I ended the conversation when she didn't reply back in 3min then she went offline. So I guess my lack of showing her attention for the past week kind of worked. I guess its reverse logic with girls. I'm just kind of pondering if I should even have messaged her back and maybe perhaps ignored her message. I'm thinking right now if they playing hard to get strategy will work. I will continue to try and befriend more girls in that class I have with her and see how she reacts to it. Next time we talk I'll try to let her do all the talking because girls love to talk about themselves lol. I think I am more relaxed around her now because I kind of gave up on her because of how she acted towards me the past week so now her looks or trying to please her and stuff doesn't really bother me anymore.
seems to me wolf has evolved from being shy and useless to imma-turn-playa-soon-and hit-up-them-girls
lol wow this thread is still going i just have a feeling that wolf is over-analysing the girl's reactions. i mean sometimes their reaction could mean a lot or sometimes it means jack shit. But anyways its good to see you have put matters into your own hands and it seems like you know what you're doing good luck
O-M-G..... i am in a totally same situation as you.....'cept that i can't find the nerve to talk to guys that i'm interested in, but it's ok to talk to guys which are 'normal'.... argh!!!! totally bugs me! ><
wise quote I picked from watching Young and Dangerous a long time ago: "If I like a girl and I talk to her, then I will have 50% chance of scoring...but if I dont talk to her, I get 0 chance" (who says you cant learn from watching movies lol) Not really a quote, but something like that lol. Anyways, I think that it is totally true! Oh and tiger, I tried your way of being "cool" a long time ago in high school...sh1t didnt work. I seriously advice you to start thinking of something to say to make her like you. For starters, talk about random sh11t like movies, homework, fav food/restaurants etc.
^ haha i remember that quote, it holds true to a point but i got high hopes for wolf, just has to play it by what he feels and let that guide him, better scratch that, i mean let his heart guide him. Going out on the limb here, but he is just thinking to much on this, but i think he gots it and sooner or later it will pay off
