Update: During the holidays I managed to get her to switch into 1 of my classes. We continued chattin on msn till school started. During first week of school she told me she dropped one of her classes and I told her to switch into another one of mines which she did. She didn't show up to class that week, she said her alarm clock was sabotaged by a family member lol and on the other day I had class with her she said she came but went to the wrong room. She said she wanted to sell me a textbook that I needed that week on msn and I told her to bring it to class .Anyways next week I came to class late and I didn't see her when I came but later my friend pointed her out and she also msg me when I logged into msn on my laptop in class and we chatted on msn the whole lecture. When class ended I didn't see her at her seat so I kind of panicked and quickly grabbed my stuff and left the classroom and went outside to look for her but I didn't see her neither so I went to go buy lunch. As it turns out she had moved to the other side of the room when class ended and was waiting for me. She then went to get lunch when she didn't see me. So I basicaly screwed up my opportunity to have lunch with her that day.
wtf. can;t u summarise or somethin? I can only read 10 lines in a post. I think u fup. ok...on the post...don;t mess up with the chick, alright? Keep koo;
Anyways later in the day she msg me and was like where were u? lol and I replied "wehre were u?". Anyways we agreed to meet after her class was done so she could sell me her textbook. After we met up and I bought her textbook, I asked her if she wanted to go to the bookstore and buy a textbook for one of our classes and she agreed. So me and her went around campus to the three bookstores to find the textbook. Afterwards she asked me to go to shoe store with her to get her shoes that she ordered. Afterwards she asked me if I went to pub night before. I don't drink so I said " I don't wanna get wasted" lol. ya I know I screwed up. She replied your not gonna get wasted. Anyways afterwards I asked her if she was hungry and she was like nah I already ate before class :(. So I kind of got rejected and then me and her said goodbye and she went home, I had a night class.
Next day we had a lab but she was in a different section so during our break we talked on msn before class and I kind of asked her for lunch but she said she just bought a bagel and was eating it :(. She also told me to switch into her section but it was full so I couldn't. Anyways when class started I didn't see her and then she shows up to class and sat beside me and we just talk till class started. Then after class me and her talk alittle and she asked me if I was going home, and I reply " ya" then I ask her back and she was like i'm going shopping now" so we both said goodbye and I went home. I screwed up again. Then on the other day when I have another class with her she brought thsi guy to our lab. He has that lab after ours but he now comes to ours -censored.
This guy was in her group from last semester if you read my previous posts and was also in 3 of her classes so he was obviously alot closer to her then me and knew her since september. Me and him shook hands and exchanged names and didn't talk lol. I was really pi$$ed off that day because he came to our lab and the fact that he was acting very clingy and needy. She sat between me and him but of course she was leaning towards him more.After class was done all three of us walk to the subway and she said she was going south so she can take the train and I went north. guess what? This guy followed her. I serious doubt he takes south. That day I thought if it was the right thing for me to do by not following her and not acting desperate like this guy or should I have went with her.
On saturday I saw a spot opened in her section so I quickly tried to switch sections but it wasn't working so I thought if I dropped the class and then tried adding hers in it would work. This methods work except one thing though. I forgot the last day to drop classes was the previous day so I couldn't add back my class and I freaked lol -shock . So next week comes and I came to school early and told the office i accidentially dropped a class and asked them to readd it back for me, except i gave them her section instead of my old one lol. They added it back for me but I later checked and I was slammed with a $200 fee-censored , but I guess it was ok because it would have been worst if i didn't get teh class back and would have to go to summer school.
Anyways it was time for class and she comes to class and sits beside me and we chat. She tells me that the guy she introduced me to last week kind of screwed her over on a group assignment because he went on vacation. So I guess she was kind of pi$$ed off at him for leaving all the work for her to do. Anyways after class , I asked her if she went to pub night and she was like no. So I said I'll go with you next time if I have time, but she said I dun think I can go this week and next week because she had to do some ceremony thingy. Afterwards this time I decided to ask her first what she was doing instead of her asking me first( I learned my lesson lol from last week).
She said she was gonna go back to the other building and study, so I couldn't ask her to lunch -cry2 Anyways I went to go buy lunch and I ran across A & W and I saw a special for two burgers so I was like ah what the heck. Then I went back to school to look for her then I finally found her and I asked her if she ate lunch yet and she said no and i nervously took out a burger and handed her it. She says " whats this?" and me being really nervous I just automatically replied " Its a burger" and she starts to laugh. Then I said some dumb things. Anyways when it was time for her class she told me to come to her class with her. Keep in mind I had a very long break this day of the week and i had a night class. So I agreed and went to her class with her. We talked for quite a bit in her class till the prof arrived, which at that point I decided not to disturb her while she was taking down notes. After class was done we chatted alittle then she said goodbye and left.
Then the next day, I came to school late and i showed up in her lab and she was like what are u doing here? I said I was always in this section lol. Anyways we worked together in the group assignment and then we had our break and me and her chat and then went to class. Then after class was done I asked her what she was gonna do now and she said she was going home and asked me back the same thing. We both took the subway train home ( she only goes south on the end of the week back to her parents house). Then on the other day when I had class with her this week, that guy didn't come because he went on vacation so it was just me and her and we chatted. After class was over we took the train together. She went south and I followed her because I can go both ways just I have to pay alittle more for going south. I was like I'll keep you company but you have to buy me a ticket ok in a joking way? So we just chat on the train.
Next week she didn't come to our class on monday because she said she had to do that ceremony thingy. On tuesday she chat in class and then we have a break and we hung out till it was time for class. After class was done I asked her out to lunch and we went to home. I was trying to bring her to try something different but I ended up screwing that up too lol. The food there was horrible and I never went there before too. But overall we chatted and stuff and I kind of asked her out in a non obvious way twice, first I said next week I'll take you for some dim sum but we have to go early in the morning and she asked me what time. Then I told her and she said it that time was alrite and that it wasn't too early. Then later on I also said I would take her to see some chinese new years celebration and she asked me where and I told her and she said lets go after midterms when I get my car back or something like that and we also talked about martial arts and self defence. Then afterwards I asked her to show me a few self defense moves and then I showed her some that I knew lol. Then we went to the shoe store so she could return the shoes she bought from the previous two weeks. Then afterward we went home.
OMFG.. how bout puttin' in CHapters for this thing.. I can't believe I read so much already... >.< First off you screwed up when she asked you to go drinkin' with her.. thas practically saying.. oh les get drunk then we'll figure out what to do later.. -lol lol dude you are way too into this girl.. the fact the wrote all of that shows you're obsessed.. try to leave out the lil details next time.. like.. oh she went this way.. i went taht way... blah blah blah... so I'm at the "Next week she didn't come to our class on monday because she said she had to do that ceremony thingy."... i'll contin. it later.
Then on our lab this week that guy showed up again -angry I kind of knew she would sit between us so I sat one sit away from him. Then some girl sat beside him on his left so I quickly switched seats and sat beside him on his right so when the girl comes she can't seat beside him lol. To make it less obvious I made smallchit-chat with him after I switched seats. I found out from him that he only has that 1hr lab that day and he purposely comes all the way from his house to go to that lab. Ya right. Then she came to class and she couldn't sit between us so me and her chat and it was very hard for them to chat so they didn't talk much. Before class was over I notcied she was in a hurry to pack her things. After class was over I guess he got ticked off and desperate because of what I did so he asked her out to hot chocolate but she said she can't. Then he asked her again saying" ah come on lets go get some hot chocolate" and she said I can't I have to get home and pack and catch the train. This definitely comfirmed my suspition of him also going after her. So then he said goodbye to us and left and me and her took the subway home.
On sunday this week I wanted to confirm if we were still going for dim sum so I msg her on msn but she said she nah she has alot of work to do. Now comes this week, we chat in class as usual and then me and her walk to the other building and me and her chat for 1hr till her class started. Then I went to her class for alittle bit because I had to meet my friend. During our conversation while in her class we talked about cellphones and she asked me for my # and I gave her my #. Then I said I'm getting a new # soon and she said she was too and said to me " lets go shopping for a new cellphone". Then I asked her back for her # then later on I left because i had to meet my friend.
So the next day I noticed she didn't show up for class and i was kind of disappointed then I logged into msn and I noticed on her screen name it said she slept in. Anyways after my break was done and I went to class, she came to class and told me her she forgot to plug in her alarm clock. Also during class I noticed she kept on checking her celphone.Then after class was done, She told me she was gonna go meet her cousin later and get her nails done. I went with her to go buy something for her sister and then me and her went to the mall and she looked at hats. Then she said she was gonna go get lunch and said to me " you don't have to keep me company if you don't want to". What the hell is that suppose to mean? Was she telling me to go F'off lol or was it some sort of test? I replied and said " you like being a loner eh?" and she said " ya I like being a loner, I'm used to it, I always eat by myself" or something like that. Then she said it to me again " you don't have to keep me company if you don't want to" and I replied " I like to keep lonely people company", then we just went to buy food and had lunch. When we were eating lunch I asked her if I seemed shy, and she said ya when I first met you. I found that quite funny because she was the one that was making feel like that lol. During our lunch I notcied her phone going off and she was getting txt msges and she said it was her cousin. So after we finished eating, and we went up the escalator I said goodbye to her and bailed out because I didn't want to meet her cousin and have her family judge me and tell her stuff about me like oh this guy is ugly or this guy is chasing you or he's not good enough for you.
So today that guy showed up again to our lab. She came with him. She sat between us again but I noticed she was sitting alot closer to me because when we were copying down the notes I felt her elbow touch mines a few times and as usual that guy was acting all clingy and needy like her pet dog or something. She was leading the way when they came to class and he moved his chair closer to her and also took out his textbook and laid it in front of her when she didn't even ask him for it. I was really pi$$ed off today by how he acted. Then after class was done and we leave the building, she said to me that she was going to the library and I said ok and we both walked the opposite direction while that guy followed her again argggg......-angry. I dunno If I'm being paranoid or something but when she told me she was going to the library I felt something in her response that was different. The look and the way she said it. I kind of felt like I should have went with her but I didn't want to seem desperate and needy and clingy like that guy.
Right now I dunno if what I did was right or not. Should I have been more aggressive or be more calm and cool. It was hurting me so badly today when I was going home on the bus. It felt really painful and it was nearly unbearable. Also I've noticely lately on msn she doesn' IM me first anymore and when we do talk our conversations don't last longer then 5-10 min. Before during the christmas break we used to talk for 1-2.5hrs almost all the time. Then after she came back from her moms and moved out on her own, now its like this. My friends keep on pressuring me to ask her out and confess to her before its too late but I don't feel like its the right time yet. I got midterms next week and she told me during reading week she is working all week. I've gone from not even being able to speak to her to getting this far and don't want to lose. Week after week I've been trying to improve myself, my social skills, confidence level everything. I improved the way I dressed and worked out more. I ironed my cloths alot more too. I took up some extra hobbies. I tried to talk to more girls. I wasn't even able to tease a single girl before in my life except my sister or when I was a kid Yet I somehow managed to do it with her.. I tried giving her a nickname and now I'm started to learn how to flirt too. In my journey from trying to initate the first conversation up to this point of trying to get a date now, I thought it was infatuation/crush when I first saw her but now that I've gotten to know her more and learn about her and stuff I think I'm starting to really fall for her and her personality and stuff.
I don't know what I should do at this point. Its really frustrating and complicated. Initally I didn't expect it to be this hard but the more I know her the more it has become harder. Before there wasn't this other guy in the equation but now he is in the way. I also have two night classes and she goes back to her parents home on weekends which leaves me with 2 days really to go out with her. She is also older then me and very independant. Its like the odds are stacked against me. So what should I do now? Right now I don't know what is the right thing to do . I dun even think she is interested in me and that I might even already been put in the friendzone. I feel like I can't hold it inside of me anymore and I just want to tell her get this off of my chest.
