ppl cheat b/c they are slutty ppl. if your going for the real good smart person that never lies, they never cheats. some ppl just want to have fun, that's why they cheat. but by cheating, it could hurt you for the rest of your life.
perhaps ur fd's too depressed... she wanna feel loved by EVERYONE... n she's afraid to lose the other guy's love if she doesn't cheat with him...
she is really depressed...suicidal now too......i wish she and her bf can be together......it is so sad.... i tink she may be addicted to cheating.... cuz she said it just happens even tho she doesn't want it to and knows its bad....
yea somethin' like that... maybe your friend lookin' for love in all the wrong places.. or maybe she's easy to persuade... My feelin' is... she could be a schizo... maybe she rockin' multiple personality and her "other self" is doin' all that... -confused -dead
titi... if u know she's suicidal and so depressed have u ever thought she might have depression?? may b the only way u can help her is by taking her to the doctors... coz other than that i don't c wot else u can do...
actually, she does have depression and is taking a bunch of meds..... i dunno how else to help her...she's just feeling really bad...think she is a horrible person...and dun deserve to be cared ...and shouldn't deserve to have a life...she thinks she causes everyone around her distress and sadness...which i have to say is somewhat true...i dunno how to cheer her up
yea maybe she's one of those pple that likes to feel pain... and i can not think of the word right now... but yea either way... if she's more optimistic then it would def. help her out more. You could probably do something thas gonna help her raise her self-esteem so she ain't depressed all the time. Cuz her problem sounds way more severe than just cheating on a guy...
tell her if she's always sad the of coz she's making all her fds sad coz they worry abt her... if she doesn't want to b responsible for all her fd's misery then happy and cheer her fds up!!
Your friend cheats because she only cares about her own happiness... There is no excuse for cheating, especially on someone she claims to love... if she can't figure out why she's doing it, then tell her to get some real therapy cause taking pills doesn't solve the underlying problem... how many times does that bf have to forgive her? i bet you she's the type that after crying and begging for forgiveness (after she's been caught), would pretend nothing had happened the next day and continue to cheat... seriously, these girls piss me off... do they even understand the concept of loyalty? especially if this bf had been with her since day 1... she claims that she still love the first bf, but has done absolutely nothing to get him back. I bet you to this date she can't even stop seeing that second guy. when the past bf gives you a second chance, why would you throw it away? maybe she is addicted to cheating, who knows... but, cheating is not a symptom of clinical depression.
You're going out with this girl, but then you realize someone out there is better. Than you dont know what to do with the first 1 and then you just keep 2 -sweat
you are right, there is no excuse for cheating...you are right, she is a selfish girl who only cares about her own happiness....maybe that is who she is....however, she still doesn't understand why she did it....at this moment...she misses her ex deeply, but...she also knows he would be better off w/o her....that is her decision now.....to wish him the best on everything he does........
If this is really true, what has she done do make things right? why is she still seeing the other guy? Kind of counter productive don't you think? if she really "loved" this ex, don't you think she would have done everything to make right all the wrongs.....?
lol leave cheating to the professionals... had she been good at it... she would have never been in this situation... nothin' else to say about the poor girl except for the fact that she was inexperienced... and shouldn't had cheat if she didn't plan it out properly....
lol thas like the 5th or 6th whistle from you... just what are you trying to get at. Ya know it really just became apparent to me... she cheated... told his boyfriend... felt guilty... then whole lotta drama. ANd all coulda been avoid had she been a lil a cautious... and instead of feeling bad now.... she coulda had both those guys buying her things and lovin' her...-sorc
She recently found out (3 days ago) second guy got suspended from program, in other words, kicked out....reason was b/c of her....3 years of schooling down drain.....she feels guilty for this...he gets nightmares about her ex...and her...and couldn't concentrate in school b/c of their issues....night b4 his final...she called him crying about her ex....he ended up failing both finals...and is kicked out of his program.......she now feels that second guy needs her for support...b4 finding out about this...she was going to go back to ex...(was going to book flight for thursday which is today...LD relationship)....try to work things out as much as she can b/c they started to have contact again thru msn... however while trying to explain her feelings to second guy, he broke down...and told her about his educational status....b/c of this....she feels that maybe it is better for her ex to move on...have a life w/o her...b/c she truely doesn't deserve him......or any of them... but b/c of the situation, she is deciding to be there to support second guy thru this time....try to get him back to where he is suppose to be...then leave....get him to move on as well...... she is tired of love and relationships..... So i guess this is the end between her and her ex......there will be no way for him to want her back after this for sure.......but maybe it would be better for him...no longer stressed out about her...start a new life...... i believe she has really learnt her lesson......unfortunately thru loosing the one person that ever meant so much to her....so this is it As i mentioned earlier, she has decided to wish ex the best in everything he does....
