I think I was in the same position as you for the past few months. I trolled on and waited day by day, only able to temporarily forget about it with school and work. If you try and contact him, even innocently and he doesn't reply, don't keep waiting, he probably doesn't want to hear from you again. During those months of waiting, I resolved to write out a blog whenever the internal stress got too big for me to handle, or some idea comes up and its a starving motivation to be let out onto the blog. Even so, when I looked back, I thought of the point of view from him. Does he want to be able to google, and somehow find this? What would be his reaction if he didn't like me? If he still did like me? I think you're waiting and not taking action because you're scared he will respond badly, correct/incorrect? Well, to tell you the truth, only recently (literally like a week ago) was I able to truly let things go. Its because I came to the conclusion that if things go on the way it did, I could likely become some sort of freaky net stalker. Either checking his facebook, or his blog everyday (so my first step was to delete everything I had regarding him). I don't want to be seen as some weird stalker nor do I want to be driven to the point of being that crazy. That was my solution anyway. It took a painstakingly long 5 hellish months.
I didn't do anything.. I cannot stop contacting him as we're in the same class and same assignment group members in university.. I just act normal.. Treating him as a friend.. Didn't try to do anything to freak him out.. because I know if I do anything I will freak him out.. But as friends.. even though I am absolutely normal... like I smile and laugh.. but inside is bleeding hard.. I was thinking the same about stop seeing him or stop contacting him... But do I have a choice? I don't..
^ seriously woman! you are in UNI! there's far more boys there you can imagine! Not just one guy who is in the same class as you! Go out to the union and get drunk or go to the nearest town and club like hell and meet more new people! Stop mopping around coz all you are going to do is going to make your depressed and lose your friends because all they hear is you still liking this boy and its impossible (by the sounds of things) so yeah.. MEET NEW PEOPLE AND HAVE FUN URGH!!!
I'm not that kinda girl who likes flirting around.. Not like I have much time to hang around with my heavy load of studies.. and not like you say.. I didn't keep on buzzing around my friends.. Just keep it to myself...
i didnt say go and flirt did i? i meant meet new people? there maybe people who are better than the one u like atm? yes maybe you hae heavy loaded study but everyone needs time off just to go off and have fun.. uni aint just about getting a degree.. its about meeting new people and some people finds their love of their life around uni life... all im saying is to meet new people and u never know you might find a nicer guy without flirting just by knowing him?
i dont think theres any use to this thread as is seems as ur asking for help but ur not even listening to us... we are trying to give u advice but EVERYTHING we say, u wave it off... so what u want us to do? u gotta help urself chick
the more you engange it contact with him, e.g call etc.. the lower your value as a girl will be to him. go out with your friends. it easy to say and yet i believe it is easy once you are doing it.
lol OP is trolling hard I have advice for you: Go crazy and text him 100 times a day. That will get his attention. :biggthumpup:.
Wrong wrong wrong.. I didn't find him.. i didn't contact him like i used to be.. no matter how much i wanted.. but some necessary things regarding to university, there's a need.. I just miss him alot... that's all.. I just keep everything to myself..
No No, no, there's no way Don't do anything to him, leave him, don't contact him, don't think of him and find someone else. Direct answer to every single question...
try maintaining some distance for a while, if he really loves you, needs you, he will come back for you`
Goshhhhhhhh.................. I want to try to create that distance.......... by stopping my studies?????? How about my assignments? We're in the same group.. and I'm already in year 2 final semester.. My final year is year 3.. No one is going to change group with me..
lol you sound like justin timberlake and jessica biel situation jess is so clingy, hence JT is going to ditch her your clinginess is a turn off for any dude. keep that up, and your ex is going to be like, wtf, get the fuck away from me to answer your situation, get a life. get a social life. the more you have things to do, the less you think about it. your dude's not gonna come back for you. you're not going to get a chivalry bullshit from that douchebag. you're being a child, so stop moping around, get your act back together, and stop being so emo. the fact is, the longer you mope about this nonsense bullshit, a no win situation for you, the more you're going to waste time you can spend on other more important things. SO STRAIGHT UP ANSWER: NO HE WILL NOT LOVE YOU BACK. so go get an attitude check, so other dudes, and yourself, don't have to go through this shit again.
