Give her time to think about how she feels about you. If she can only see you as a friend then maybe she should just be friends. A one sided relationship will cause you a lot of pain. Communicate! discuss how you both feel and what you think about the situation.
Results Hi all thanks for ur replies. I have talked to her and ask her, the thing is i know that she sees that i'm a nice guy, kind ect... and some1 she can see settling down with. However i wonder is that all that she see's me as, cos i want her to be with me because she feels for me not because of those factors. I asked her and she said when i do something special (ie on valentine's day i cooked for her and took her to the japanese garden for picnic) she said she does feel but after that she doesn't feel like that when we hang out often. She's confuse herself is it cos we hang out and c eachother everyday hence she doesn't have that feeling often cos she's so use to me. I wonder is it because we hang out with eachother so much that she has some kind of feeling but she doesn't know it?
Hanging out and seeing each other too often is a big problem, in my opinion. When I first dated, me and my GF saw each other almost everyday for 2-3 straight months, in which it got sort've boring for the both of us. After a couple days of not seeing each other... we realized that everything got better, all those "missing you" feelings kicked in.. etc. So.. give yourselves some time off in seeing each other so much.. it'll do you two some good.
Bruce Lee stated: ....Love is like a friendship set on fire!... I think the signs are there if you choose acknowledge it. its still in its early stages.. Your both already past friendship by the sounds of it.. just confirm it! its normal for bf and girlfriends to have intimate moments and then cooling moments.. thats the way it is. so just make it official and give her a kiss! let it grow!
take some time off and not see her everyday. maybe then she will feel like she needs u and then when she ask why ur not talking to her anymore, then ask her if she miss u, then go from there. it should work if she likes u, but on the other hand, this is also a rsik on ur friendship so its up to u.
It seems to me like she still only misses the time she hangs out with me but not me me. Thing is she is very immature although she is above her 25 but she is very inexperienced. Sometimes i believe that only if 1 day i'm not around for her then she realise its actually me who she misses & not the times we hang out 2gether. And i HOPE not even confident about that.
Just recently when we went out she said something that upset me which she didn't mean too. I was very upset & sad. Later she realised it and she too said she was feelings said becos she knew that she must of said something that hurt me & she said it made her kept thinking what she did wrong & she felt sad too. This shows that she does care for me doesn't she?
