Wish you were my brother/sister

getting out of the friend zone is damn near impossible.... its annoying especially when you know you two get along great, and at least one side is attracted to the other.....

i have had this happen to me..... i was really into this girl... but she only saw me as her brother... and ever since i opened up to her we haven't been that close anymore..... sucks...

 

usually when they say bro/sister mean i dont want to go out with you but dont want to lose u as a friend

 

It's just another way to reject them

 

or they just dont want to hurt your feelings

better to have an extra "friend" than enemy right?

to be honest? if it gets to that point....if u were once upon a time close? u wont be so anymore afterwards...

 

I will be happy. If they always looked at me that way, at least I will get the message that they don't see me anywhere other than that. It's a good thing cause you find out that things just won't work out the way you want, no matter what, you don't want to force them to be in a relationship with you. So it's better off finding out that it won't work out than getting stuck with mind games and then finding out later that they always looked at you that way.

 

what happens if they do that to you and u dont really want to waste time on them anymore ? what would u do?

but u dont want to ignore them?

 

First hand experience as well?

 

mui mui uses this line religiously LOLLLLL

 

I have a friend
She is always in his house everyday and they call each other always bro and sis , she call his mother alway mom and always hanging out with his mom mor them with him lolbut there is more she was in love with him years aagoo or sth like that
but thats okk

 

if i like the person and the person doesn't like me and told me that i am his little sister, i will feel happy. you can't force love..but at least i can always be his best friend.

 

^ your initial reaction would not be one of happiness....

 

also that means u never really liked that person anyways...

 

haha the brother/sister thing is crap.
it kind of reminded me of this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8

 

I'll just move on, that's it.

 

It could actually be a good sign. Most friendships last longer than relationships nowadays anyway.

 

sometimes it might turn out pretty alright being brosis as it can become long time friendship.

 

haha
this should be just another way to keep close relationship with a person, despite don't 1 or can't be couple....
hehe
or maybe it's really pure brother n sister..
hehe

 

sounds more like gettin rejected, but in a way that wont hurt you

 

Well, it really depends on the situation. If you ask someone out and s/he said that to you .. i treat you like my bro/sis or wish you were my bro/sis; then yes, it's a simple rejection. However, if ya'll have no feeling whatsoever about one another; then, being bro/sis is a good thing, right?