wot would u do if ur bf/gf still keeps his/her ex's pic in their wallet??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ~*Dawn*~, Jun 20, 2006.

  1. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    Telling em to remove it aint gonna solve it and taking it out urself aint gonna do it either. If it's still in the wallet he uses everyday then you may have a problem. Or maybe they broke up on good terms and he just didn't wanna throw out the pic and after all he did put ur pic over the ex. If he wanted to hide it I think he woulda picked a better place then a wallet. I mean, does he not know girls..
     

  2. good point... that's wot i thought... but wouldn't u still b bothered abt it??
     
  3. ahhamah

    ahhamah Well-Known Member

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    its me or the fuckin picture =)
     
  4. Silversaber

    Silversaber Active Member

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    I'd probably take a simple approach first such as confronting her about it and telling her that it'd mean a lot to me if she could just throw out that pic or something like that. And if that doesn't work, well, no clue.

    I wouldn't do anything drastic like burning up the picture since that would most likely lead to an argument.

    Also, it also depends whether she sees the guy still. If the guy already moved to a different country, I wouldn't mind as much. But if he were still around and seeing her regularly, like weekly or something, then I'd know there's a problem.
     
  5. sai

    sai Well-Known Member

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    if her ex-boyfriend was my best friend, nothing i can do, but if some1 that i hate or doesn't like i'll rip the photo or will burn it
     
  6. okies

    okies Well-Known Member

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    i would confront them ask them why she has the pic
    cause it could mean that she still likes or in love with her exboyfriend
    which isnt good for your own relationship
    because when they are with you they could be wanting to be with someone else
    would u like to be in a relation with a person who dosent care for u as much as you care for them?
    that just make things worst makes u feel bad
    back to my point....have a conversation with the person and see how u fel after it
    it maybe nothing....
     

  7. i like ur attitude -clapclap
     
  8. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    Would I be bothered? Hmm.. If that was the only picture in her wallet other than mine I'd be bothered but I wouldn't tell, ask, or imply that I wanted her to remove it. I'd just say, cool who's this, and as she looked I'd pull it out of the wallet so she see's where it came from and notice her reaction while handing it to her at the same time, then set the wallet down near her but not directly infront and pretend to be interested in the picture. Then just wait and see where she puts it. If she has a picture box or album, she should either put it their or just some random place. If it goes back into the wallet than put a picture of one of ur ex's in ur wallet and set it up so that he'll find it and see how he reacts and who knows, maybe u'll find out the story of "that" picture without even asking him and settle it with him being mad at you rather than you playing the roll of the jealous gf. Assuming you havn't.. =\

    And you should get the 411 from his people's too. Or atleast the one's you've made friends with. Making friends with ur other halfs "pals" is important for this reason if ever you need to use it. Better this than getting played.
     
    #48 p3ps1c0la, Jul 25, 2006
    Last edited: Jul 25, 2006
  9. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    I'd grab his wallet, take the picture out, rip it in front of his face, and see his reaction. If he gets upset about it, dump him =P

    Guys shouldn't even have pictures in their wallets...unless forced by the gf.
     
  10. when someone stills has a picture in his/her wallet that shows you that persons still holds a special place in his/her heart. put it behind shows that they want to put that feeling away and lock it in a place in the heart.
     
  11. ok... so basically i should just rip up the pictures...
     
  12. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    ask them about the pictures...?
     
  13. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    Are you implying that it's your bf that has pics of his ex? =P

    I'd say that unless the ex died while they were going out, there's no reason to have a pic of her. A pic would tell me that he wants to get back together with her, or brag about his coolness...

    If I were you, I'd never settle for second place! So yes, you should rip it up, dump him and roll with me! lol
     
  14. Giniro

    Giniro Well-Known Member

    As them go back to their ex dont waste my time
     
  15. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    haha that sorta reminds me of a quote...
    "i dont wanna be your number one. i wanna be your only one."
    yeahh..haha
     
  16. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    Wow, you're quite the possessive one aren't you? =P
     
  17. good advice... n i shall make him spend all his $$ on me before i dump him :p
     
  18. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    ^ you go girl!! hahaa
     
  19. haha... u bet i will... now all we gotta do is decide where to go on our first date...
     
  20. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    Your place or mine? lol