Would u marry someone who u dont have full confidence in??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aiyimankit, May 2, 2008.

  1. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    Uh... duh, of course not. Once you get married, all those problems you're having right now are going to be amplified by 100.

    Also, if anyone is just with their gf or bf just for the heck of it (and for the sex), they're an ass. Their gf/bf would deserve someone so much better.
     
  2. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    why don't u try that and then u will understand when u have divorced a dozen times and realised that half of ur income is now going off to provide for them. lol.
     
  3. ^ right, i rather just only have to marry once and not have to deal with the divorce..... i believe the one i marry will seriously be the one i will stay with and i will be finding a partner who shares the same views
     
  4. you gotta avoid the system.. :shifty:
     
  5. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    well yes that would be wat u aim to do once u marry someone. if ur not sure then marriage rele shouldn't be an option that you are thinking about.
     
  6. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    That's what prenups are for.
     
  7. ProjectD

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    definitely not... for us guys its really bad especially after divorce.... but im not saying that is an issue
    most ppl get married when their fully sure so eh...
     
  8. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    Yeh Same here. If you feel not good with her then you have to tell her that what you think for her. Its not good if you just woke with someone and leave because you don't like her ? Its very hard for a women to accept other girl in your partner life. What you say ?
     
  9. my answer is no to both questions...

    y would u gamble ur whole life into something u dun really believe in?? that's like ppl betting on a horse with 3 legs... wouldn't it b more safe to bet on a horse that's got 4 legs??

    n no i wouldn't b in a relationship that i think it's going no where... been there... done that... it was a total waste of time... waste of my precious youth... i was A LOT happier once i got out thanks to my lovely girl friends...

    besides... it's not against the law to try n get back with ur ex...

    if ur really unsure maybe try taking a break from each other n c if u really miss each other ur happier without each other... good luck!!
     
  10. jennywu

    jennywu Member

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    Nope

    NEVER unless you don't want the marriage to last
     
  11. jennywu

    jennywu Member

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    or

    or you think the situation will change
     
  12. tofuu_mui

    tofuu_mui Active Member

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    after datin for a few years with the same person, who is very lazy.. kinda kills all your mood to do anything special.
    and as i grow i feel like getting marry isnt all that important, rather be bf and gf.
     
  13. schung23

    schung23 Well-Known Member

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    heck no! why would you?
     
  14. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    recklace idea - gotta consider the negatives that can come after gettin married
     
  15. nikiki

    nikiki Well-Known Member

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    no.. i wont.. i dont wan to regret..
     
  16. moremoret

    moremoret Active Member

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    no cause at the end you not goin to be happy, i think you should marry the person that u look forward to after work,
     
  17. heyyitsalana

    heyyitsalana Member

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    no because in the end you'll both be miserable