I think it is very important to where you come from. Because here in Canada, it is not uncommon for a boy to be well proportioned with a girl 2 or 3 times the size of the boy. And when we talk about China, already starting girls are thin, I do not think a guy from China could accept a girl 2 or 3 times bigger than him When i go to Chinatown, i'm like the fat one among chinese. Chinese friends and parents said i'm ''too''fat, but when i'm with my ''white'' friends. i'm not the biggest lol.
yeah but wouldn't your significant other get their standard based on their environment? like if you lived in a place with girls that are all 100 pounds, you'd think 100 pounds is normal and everything else is too skinny/fat
^ how she feels ain't important here right? the OP question asked if the guy will dump the gal if she gets fat .. if he doesn't feel that way, then it ain't a problem, correct?? I bet the gal will know she's FAT if he can't even carry her to bed on his arms .. lol
you have to be fairly low to dump your gf if she gets fat, it sounds like whoever the boy is or if you think like that need a seriously good beating.
lo por fong sum, i wud never leave you! My love for you is true, no mater what shape or size you are, i would never leave you ok <3 But yeah on a more less cheesy serious note, no matter what people say, whether they say your low for dumping their partner for getting fat, but it's true, because if my partner were to waste away and get fat and not do anything about it... I would feel like they given up on themselves and everything around them... (there usually is a link between things like this) Call me shallow or whatever, but it's true... Lo por, dnt worry, i wudnt leave you!!!! dont worrryyyyy!!! x
Too late, I married her... LOL... Funny thread. When I first married Mrs. Ralph, she was 88 lbs. Now she's a real porker at 115. But I can't talk. I went from 175 to 238 <sob>
hahaha but lo porrrrrr, i know u wudnt let yourself go like that! Lol if you do....ill pay for ur liposuction haha x
hahaha already have but sadly its for our kids college funds lol. guess thats gna go to my wifes beauty haha, oh well. love you to bits x
damn ralph i thought u were the skinny type Lol. If u have a stay at home wife she'll prob sit around and eat ice cream so prepare for the future and buy a gym card / workout machine before it happens! Anyways instead of letting ur loved one go u should probably try and communicate , ask them to go to the gym with u or what not, most people will say they don't have time to exercise because thats the most common lie they will use to justify themselves (i've said this before and behold! people came up with that excuse right under my nose) , anyone can spare just 30 mins a day to exercise so set up a schedule and just do it. Oh yes and all the exercise is not going to help if ur eating burgers/fries for lunch everyday , wait till u hit 20+ kids
ur wife is just over 8 stone, thats not fat at all, 88lbs is just over 6.3 stone, now that is very thin, to thin for meh -sweat
^ maybe she's soooooooo tiny like 4'8 or something, it will make sense for her to be 88lb.......(before) I KNOW right........... ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "I'm so fat.......fuck." "xxxxxx! You aren't fat at all!! You're so skinny!!!" <_< ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "Daughter, don't sit at home too much, you'll get fatter. Run around the park like my boss's daughter does everyday." >.< ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
going to the gym is intimidating for regular guys/gals .. fat ones .. even worst. not that they don't have time but the fact that they become totally self-conscious when they hit the gym .. humiliating, embarrassing, etc .. you name it. hey look, i am scare to go too these days ..
if its your GF then you can do a runner if she wont change, if its your wife then thats another story
don't wanna buy all the equips .. beside, i am afraid to go to the gym cuz of GAY ppl keep hitting on me ..
