Breaking up means start over, but ifyou want to start over with someone else, do it early or it'll be kind of late. but doesn't hrurt to stay
stay. because its so hard to find that special someone you love. if they love each other enough they can work it out =D
it's not as hard as u think... once u fall out of love with one it's easy to fall in love with another... there's no such thing as "one cannot be replaced"... life goes on no matte what...
If you weren't sure what to do and wanna seek advice, your post should've been, what should you do to make it work; not should you break it off. Such words should never come out so easily if you truly care about the relationship. No matter what we say, the fact that you made such a post in the first place meant you already had doubt about being together forever. You kinda had your mind made up. Correct?
interesting, you didn't really read my post carefully. I didn't reference myself. Ok maybe you are right, One of the senerios listed above is about me (the one about children), but not the others. SOmetimes I see my friends in situations and i want to speak up. Sometimes i do and sometimes i dont. anyways, i'm not asking just for me,
I agree that it is hard to find someone whom you love. It is not hard to start a relationship with another individual, but it is hard to get to the married stage. Most people will have arguments during their live after they get married. In my opinion, arguing is another way of expressing one's feelings. The point of arguing with each other is not to judge who is right and who is wrong, but rather, seeing things from a different perspective. Anyway, it is all right that the husband has different views, different lives than his wife. We are ALL unique human beings with different characteristics and it is all right that we think differently from others. The point is are you willing to spend some time with your husband/wife to talk about the differences that you two have? If you are willing to talk, there will be a chance of finding a solution to the problem. Try to work things out and you will find things that you two will agree on. Like there are many different people with different faces all around the world, yet there are twins who look alike physically. Even in a world full of different faces (imagine that is ALOT), there still exists some similarities. the point comes to whether you want to spend time to find that "similarity" between each other. NOTE: For girls, if you find a guy that you love, stick with it. Even if you can wait, you beauty cannot. There is a old saying that "girls do not have alot of 'beauty' years", meaning that after a certain period, it will get harder for a girl to find a guy because their beauty will decay. So if you find a love one, stick with it. That is enough saying... Hope my advice will answer your question....
I did read it carefully but I figured it might have applied to you. Usually, the problem concerns oneself for him/her to make such a post; otherwise, such idea/thought doesn't come out of thin air unless you're studying and researching which I highly doubt that you are.
actually i am kinda interested on both sides, I see lots of friend's in situations in which i know they are headed towards a dead end, but they refuse to break up because they are happy for the moment (which is fine for some, but not all) because i know people clinging on to their bf's and trying to push themselves to believe that they could make a life together, even thought they have all these issues, eh er i'm rambling.
