Being out of your "league" is subjective... I believe it's true to some degree, but not as bad as you think. I actually think it's more beneficial to the guy. Almost any guy can get themselves to a 6.5 or 7 if they know how to clean themselves up well. I believe a 7 guy with the right personality can get a 9 girl if he plays his cards right. So don't look like a 3 and expect to pick up a 9... because it won't happen. I do agree though that unless you're atleast "good" looking... don't expect to snag the perfect 10s and think the relationship will last. No idea what you mean by "kinda invites u in", so I don't really know why you're choosing cute > hot to comment.
I guess cute. But I think I would go for someone who has a great personality. I believe that it's what on the inside that counts as opposed to the outside.
I prefer a cute face. It seems like hot girls can get as ugly as they are hot after awhile. Especially if you wake up with them in the morning. However, the cuteness of a girl's face usually lasts longer.
Well I like cute but hot is good too hehe but for some reason i think hot ppl are players tho coz they get so much attention from the opposite sex, it might be hard to keep one in a relationship if you ask me. Hm...maybe I've just seen too many bad break ups from my friends -cry2