Would you mind if your bf/gf is not a virgin?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Nawainruk, Jul 6, 2008.

  1. xJusticex

    xJusticex Member

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    well think abt it this way. LOL
    the ratio between male and the female population is 3 female to 1 male.
    so maybe thats why most guys play around and when they are ready to settle down they want a virgin. So remember guys u can only screw up twice, dun mess up the cycle HAHA!!!
    But sex is just another way to express each others love. And every time u meet some1 are u going to question abt their past? is that realli healthy for the relationship, its not abt the past, its abt the present and future.
     
  2. this has never been an issue to me. i would rather worry about promiscuity than virginity.
     
  3. jazman

    jazman Well-Known Member

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    No, i would not mind if my gf is not a virgin. Virgins are very rare nowadays. They would have lost it at a very young age. It would be like striking a lottery if you can get a virgin for marriage.
     
  4. the_laughing_man

    the_laughing_man Well-Known Member

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    In all honesty it doesn't really bother me but it would if she had sex with lots of men.
     
  5. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    yeah very worrying if they slept with lots of people >.<
     
  6. the_laughing_man

    the_laughing_man Well-Known Member

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    Even if the girl looked like my dream girl and she was my age and she had slept with say 20 people I'd be VERY put off and become uninterested.
     
  7. xyinniex

    xyinniex Active Member

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    actually, i would prefer it if he wasn't,
    cus i am..and i dont really know what to do. XDD
     
  8. tom88my

    tom88my Active Member

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    I would prefer she is a virgin, but life is not prefect... as long as she does't sleep with alot of people..
     
  9. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    So, I guess Annabel Chong is out for you then, LOL... -roflyawn
     
  10. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ urgh .. annabel chong .. i heard of her .. nasty ...
     
  11. [N]

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    ^omg never heard of that....shit that bitch is NASTY!!!! OMGAWDDDD
     
  12. vtse

    vtse New Member

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    well it depends on the age group youre talking to i think..
    i'd prefer virgin of course considerring i'm of a younger age, but i am in a age where sex is nothing surprising.
    though i believe in abstinence, if my girlfriend were to have had sex before, i wouldn't judge her by it.
     
  13. x1huang

    x1huang New Member

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    it's hard......cuz you really want a virgin...but then....a non-virgin would perform better
     
  14. cherry29

    cherry29 Banned

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    I agree with one of the response that it depends what age group you are referring to??
     
  15. will4eva7k

    will4eva7k Well-Known Member

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    i would prefer if my gf was one, but as everyone and ourselves age as each year goes by, you cannot really choose or judge people based on whether they are still a virgin or not.
     
  16. lobonn

    lobonn Active Member

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    Agree with you. For those that are saying they would like a virgin girlfriend, it would be unfair if you're not one.:heherm:
     
  17. highflyer33

    highflyer33 Member

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    It would be nice, but as many have said it is hard to expect that of someone especially in today's culture. sex is no longer a taboo activity.
     
  18. KilaKilaGirl

    KilaKilaGirl Well-Known Member

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    I bet all the people do mind about the virginity of your gf. Who doesn't, right? If you say you don't mind that itself it's a lie. you keep claiming that you don't care; are you setting up a trap for those that aren't virgin to feel good about themselves, you included.
     
  19. chili

    chili New Member

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    For you guys that mind... are you guys virgins too? How do you expect your gf to be a virgin when you're not one?

    I wouldn't mind if my bf isn't a virgin as long as he's honest about it. Probably do testing, too.
     
  20. chailing

    chailing Member

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    virgin or not is not a matter.. wat matters is the both of ur commitment, trust and communication..

    if all those goes well.. y care bout 'V' or not.. rite?