Would you still b friend with your Ex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by moremoret, Nov 17, 2007.

  1. angelzhope

    angelzhope Active Member

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    personally, no.

    There's just too much history. Unless you guys ended it mutually, even then it will still hurt :(
     
  2. WinGirl

    WinGirl Member

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    i think people only can stay friends if one or the other still has feelings for the other. Like a soft spot sort of thing. If it was a big blow up - you cant get over that.....as for it just fizzing out, well, then there obviously isnt much there either.
     
  3. yip

    yip Well-Known Member

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    i dunt think u shud be. why?

    cos u will always rememba wat u two once were, and its rather hard to get along with someone hu shared so much with u. There is also a chance u might fall in love with ur ex again o_O hu noes?
     
  4. frostshards

    frostshards Well-Known Member

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    no. at least, not wen ive done the dumping. it just makes me feel so guilty even looking at that person, because ive realized that she's not my type and i fee llike ive led her on somehow. if i was to be dumped, im not quite sure what i would do because im lucky enough not to have had this chance, buti think that i can become riends with them..but afte a year or so .
     
  5. miszwendyy

    miszwendyy Member

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    welll u gotta base it on how u guys break up... if its mild then sure but if it was pretty bad well... being friends might just hurt u more
     
  6. sebi_1

    sebi_1 Active Member

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    personlly i don't beleive in the saying that "after we've said our goodbyes, we would still remain friends" (再见也是朋友)no matter if it's a peaceful breakup or not
    ... the relationship not having worked out is a blatent fact that there is something wrong with the interaction between the two people :S
     
  7. unknownzxc

    unknownzxc Member

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    i suggest no...if u still likes ur ex... itll turn out worst... cause... when ur ex start likin someone else... im sure its hard for u to be friends wif them.. thats wats happenin to me how... i guess.. she already let it goo and startin another relationship
     
  8. BigSmoke

    BigSmoke Well-Known Member

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    it's not really that difficult to be friends with with exs...well for me i've been friends with them...i guess it's normal for exs to be friends.
     
  9. monie

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    i reckon its hard to be friends with ur ex when u guyz just broke up but after a while like 1 month things would slowly start 2 get better and u guyz could start all over being friends and start talking again

    its really selfish and immature if u guyz never talk again after u break up like iv become really good friends with my ex and another ex of mine never talks to me and always greases me off which i really hate and its been ages since we broke up
    isnt it better being friends then enemies ?

    FORGIVE AND FORGET
     
  10. yes you can. i still call my ex and sms each other. and some time we even go disco 2gather.
     
  11. fookjay07

    fookjay07 Well-Known Member

    hard answer cos u cant really
    well u can but its gonna b weird u c
     
  12. DevlicK

    DevlicK Well-Known Member

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    so far i'm still friends with all my ex although sometimes we hardly talk but we're still friends
     
  13. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    why should it be weird?
    he's just as each guy in the world...
    but one i've go through lots of things...
    better and worse time...
    and now we know eachother very well...
    thats quite a good basic to start friends rite?
     
  14. Fai

    Fai Well-Known Member

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    u should go get new friends.
     
  15. naaat

    naaat New Member

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    i think it's hard to be frd with ex gf
    i can't do it
     
  16. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    we're not saying we don't have friends...
    but especially the ones who know you best...
    could give you advice and listening best...
    and you can never have TOO many good friends...
     
  17. fookjay07

    fookjay07 Well-Known Member

    its true its very hard to be friends
    agian with ya ex
     
  18. Mandy_l

    Mandy_l Member

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    Emm well I think its ok to be friends with ur ex , it is hard but Im sure ur ex wudn mind to be ur friend , most of my exs r my good friends now =]
     
  19. dereksiu_waterloo

    dereksiu_waterloo Active Member

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    depends on the how serious the breakup was, but of course try to be friends
     
  20. KitYing

    KitYing Well-Known Member

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    i don't think i can. i'm just afraid i'd develop feelings for him again if we became friends.
    but it's weird because all of my friends are his friends too.