Would you still b friend with your Ex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by moremoret, Nov 17, 2007.

  1. MLAM

    MLAM Well-Known Member

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    I had a civil break up with a ex of mine but soon after we very rarely spoke to each other, don't even know where she is now.
     
  2. dreamymee

    dreamymee New Member

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    it's hard to be friends again, but i've seen it happen. however, that has never happened to me because it's hard to forget about what you have with that certain person. it's just weird.
     
  3. what if you work with her then u have little choice
     
  4. e4usmc

    e4usmc Member

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    really depends on the relationship as well, i mean i'm still friends with one of my ex's that i went out for like 6 months... i has been 10 years and we still talk and BS all the time. So i think it really depends on your relationship and how you guys break up.

    Semper Fi,
    Ben
     
  5. suenstyle

    suenstyle Member

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    i guess time heals everything? iono, it's tough being friends right after, but with time it gets better :)
     
  6. i would love to be, but if they broke up with me first, i'd have to say, i'd imagine it'd be really hard on me if i still liked them, and seeing them with another guy, and chances are, if i do become good friends with them, my opinions always going to be biased.... but if it were mutal... then i suppose it's alrgiht
     
  7. 26ab55822842

    26ab55822842 Member

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    sure..
    why not..
    after breaking up..
    doesnt mean tat..
    she/he is ur enemy...
     
  8. cyndy123

    cyndy123 Well-Known Member

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    Sometimes u could. But normally after you break up, you two still could be friends. It depends how take it.
     
  9. JChen06

    JChen06 Member

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    depends if the ex is being friends with you just t use you then no but it depends
     
  10. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    Practically it is very hard to keep just friendly relationship with ex dating friends.In my opinion this will increase the pains of broke up.
     
  11. smallb

    smallb Active Member

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    Well.. It might take some time before we could actually be friends again.. As in.. In talking terms.. As friends.. I don't think The guy or girl that were being dumped in the relationship could actually get over things so quickly.. So yeah... Definately it takes some time first.. I've been through that.. Still talking to my ex.. Not all of them... Though some are hi bye friends.. But we could still crap out a conversation..
     
  12. super_lover

    super_lover Active Member

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    Also depends on how the relationship ended really. For example if it ended badly like one side was found cheating then its rather unlikely that you'll talk again. However if breaking up was both agreed on, then I'm sure you can still be friends lor.
     
  13. thanksalot

    thanksalot Active Member

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    by far all my exs are all mi friends " after goodbye are friends still " yeah ? !
     
  14. nutrilift

    nutrilift Member

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    it depends how you broke up.
    if she or he leave you for another one, then screw her/him.

    Else, if you broke up because you both wanted to, then maybe you can be friend.
    It depends if you both wanted to keep in touch ;D
     
  15. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    i'm friends with all of my X.
    i think that to go out in the first place, you would hav things in common and you would also been good friends. if you werent goin out.
    it's a pity to lose a good friend just because you guys broke up.
    break up isnt the end of the world...usually...
    and i have great times with my X's
    still hang out together and muck around.
    nothing wrong i dont think @@
    unless both of you were shallow and were just going for appearance without any similarities and other traits you admire in each other.
    those are bound to fail.
     
  16. jleeboy

    jleeboy New Member

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    im still friends with my exes, its hard for someone to find a connection with another person, you two still have stuff in common so why not continue the relationship as best friends?
     
  17. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    I would love to be frens with my Exs. I'm still frens with all of them...ahha...
     
  18. sara

    sara Well-Known Member

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    It's easier said then done. "let's be friends" with your ex. You can never be friends again if you started out being friends. very arkward to see your ex with another. I don't think I would be friends.
     
  19. kchoong

    kchoong Member

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    depending on how you broke up in the first place i would say yes. i have ex's who are still friends of mine. but one who i had a 2yr relationship with has become one of my closet friends. you may not be able to become friends straight away, give a little time, things will have been forgotten n you can start on building a friendship. you see them in a totally different light once you have become friends again!

    just wish my last ex would talk with me so we could get back on track of being friends! maybe it just takes her a little longer to forget n see me as a friend!
     
  20. ahwai83

    ahwai83 Member

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    it all depends on how u broke off...different scenario different outcome....
    ;-p