haha my dad is like that... i'd say i'm going out, or i'll be back later... he'll say ok. if i tell my mom that... "where u going? who u going with? when will you be bak?" typical answers would be, "out, friends, later" haha... but yea, when i go out, i just tell my dad. =)
It is never wrong to start a relationship without your parents knowing. However, are you responsible enough to protect yourself from people harming you? If you are mature enough to handle problems, I feel that it is never wrong to start a relationship without parents acknowledgment =) I do agree with Avant of emphasizing that parents goal is just trying to protect one's from getting hurt. However, if your relationship is stable...Do tell your parents
hahaha yeah thats similar to my situation. My mum will ask questions like "who are you going with, how many people, where etc". Especially when i go over night and don't come home til next day. She always ok with it, but just likes to ask. My dad on the other hand won't ask, but if i don't tell him i'm going out late or overnght he'll call me in the middle of the night to ask where i am.
Ihhh i don think that its wrong if its not gonna be something serious, so why bother telling ur parents. In my opinion, i would only let ma parents know if i think he is the one that i might spend my life with.....So, only tell them when ur serious if not don worry them, they've got enough stress in their hands and don require nemore to worry about puppy loves....<_<
My parents used to have double standards <_< They didn't ask my brother where he goes every time he goes out late at night, but me... ugh.
Yeah BR thats pretty typical of asian parents. If you're a girl, they seem to worry more. Hmm for me my older sister never really went out late or regularly so that kind of set a bench mark for me. They expected me to be the same as her, so when i did start going out late/overnight week in week out it was like "why are you going out so much, your sister never went out this much blah blah". But i guess being a male, they eased on me pretty quickly.
when I was younger, I went out almost everyday and my parent never really said anything to me. Probably because they know I'm responsible and won't do anything stupid.
yup my rents still have double standards >.<......but its not as bad as it was i guess..... but i dunt make as such a fuss about it nows....guess i got older and know they're just looking out for me....-^_^ but still find it a little annoying....
I use to go out late all the time... until I did some stupid stuff... -.- now I'm okay though... I just tell them where I'm going, etc. or just that I'll be back late.
Well basically depends on how you feel. I don't feel it's wrong, plus some adults over here is eager to marry off their kids and when you say you're dating someone, bam the marriage subjects pops up. My parents aren't like that, but they don't like the type of guys I like XD.
Lol...fair enough though Rainy cos for parents girls could easily 'sit dai' u get wat i mean. Girl are the ones that get raped while guys don have to worry bout that...-whistle Lol....ma parents don have to fuss about me cos i don go out much cos, ma sense of direction is so bad that i don believe it maself and i don like going out late cos quite dangerous so it all comes down to the point that i am a chicken or a coward....-what?
lol whos to say guys don't get raped. You just don't hear about it as much. Plus while its true that girls are much more vulnerable to that sort of crap, really if you are going out with your close friends, have a mix of girls and guys who can look after each other, then more than most likely you'll be safe. As long as you watch your drinks, don't go home alone at night on the streets etc things should be ok.
welll start a relationship, make sure things a working well between you two, but dont get too deep into it.....then bring her home....cuz if things dont turn out well then you know....but i've had a friend who started dating at like 14 and have have over 20 different bfs, she's 20 now...
