you ask for help when . . . .

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by smallrinilady, May 4, 2007.

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you ask for help

  1. when needed

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  2. only when you are desperate

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  1. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Not yet... it'll come... some time soon :D
     
  2. rNb99

    rNb99 Well-Known Member

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    i don't like asking for help at all and come to think of it...i'm never in the situation where i needed to ask for help. i don't mind helping people though =)
     
  3. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    I usually am the one that will offer to help someone else. I rarely ask for anyones help. If im in a situation, like at my former employment, there were times when I had to deal with pretty heavy items and equipment, but the guys that I worked with would always ask to carry it for me, I'd object to it twice, (I never liked being bothersome to people) but if they offer again? lol I'd let them help me, but nope, I dont ask for it, only unless as mentioned above, if I am in abit of a predicament.
     
  4. _keke_

    _keke_ Well-Known Member

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    i only ask 4 for help when im stuck..
     
  5. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    I only ask help when I'm desperate, can't stand it if people ask me to do things if they're too lazy to do it themselves. I mean I don't mind helping others out but within reason.
     
  6. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    a little of both so im in the middle along with knoc i guess
     
  7. rsx

    rsx Well-Known Member

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    I absolutely cannot tolerate those who ask for help constantly, especially those who didn't attempt at the task themselves prior to asking.

    I always wonder ... how can you NOT feel like a nuisance having ask people shit all the time?

    I'm definitely the one to ask for help only when I am in desperate need, even then, I feel hesitant to ask. It's hella weak/annoying to be asking others for favors all the time.
     
  8. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    usually i dont ask for help unless im reallyreallyreally desperate because i don't wanna bother people & stuff like that. & sometimes i get really annoyed when ALOT of people come to me, asking for help >.<
     
  9. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    Sometimes I ask for help when it's just needed. But I don't want to be a nuisance so most of the time I only ask when I'm desperate.
     
  10. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    I only ask for help when I can't find any answers on my own.
     
  11. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    depends on what kind of help..
     
  12. dragong87

    dragong87 Well-Known Member

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    i ask when i need it... if i know i don't know it.. i'll ask.. if i sorta do know it.... i might research to find my asnwer first..